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    Where is the time?

    I find that my main issue with time is that my schedule is opposite that of my partners. My nesting partner works mornings from like 5am to 9:30am. The new guy I am talking to usually works more of a traditional schedule of 9-5 and then I work evenings from like 2:30-11 generally and I also work...
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    What Does Everyone Think of a Poly LGBTQ Space Here?

    As a genderqueer transman I agree with this sentiment, especially because transphobia and transgender rights tends to take a back seat to LG rights (and B is always leftout I feel that as a bisexual too). As for an LGBTQ+ space on here, I'm torn because I do feel like it's a very inclusive...
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    I'm a hypocrite, and I don't know what to do

    Thank you Tinwen for putting into words what I am sure many of us would like to, but are unable to.
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    tough situation

    To me (and forgive me I didnt read many of the comments) it sounds like she's using your possible insecurities to her advantage instead of helping you work on them. Almost seems like a bit of a cuckold relationship - is that something you want? You need someone who's going to support you and...
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    I'm a hypocrite, and I don't know what to do

    I am in a similar situation. I am bisexual and so is my partner (she identifies as pansexual). When we decided to take our relationship to the next level she originally said she was still monogamous but was happy for me. It's only been a couple of weeks and she is realizing through using dating...
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    Going Crazy Dealing With All This Alone

    I very, very recently came out to my girlfriend of 7-ish years as polyamorous. I was so afraid that I was going to lose her as this wasn't the first time we had talked about the idea of me being poly and before the reaction was negative. And it was negative again this time. Luckily I told her...
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    When to disclosed mental health issues to new relationships

    My primary partner and I both suffer from mental illness. I suffer from "mood instability" (as diagnosed by a psychiatrist in a hospital), depression, and anxiety. My therapist has mentioned borderline personality disorder as well. I recently went through a 5 day hospital stay after I attempted...
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    Newb from Upstate New York

    So thank you for this warm welcome. I made sure to share this with my current partner of 7 years who I have known since middle school and have been best friends with since high school. She practically knows me better than I know myself as we have spent so much time together over the years. So...
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    I'm Poly - Wife Identifies as Mono

    I recently came out to my girlfriend of 7 years who currently identifies as mono about my being poly. At first she rejected it strongly, but has come around and seems to be supportive (she said she's kind of known that this was a thing as we've visited the subject of my possibly being poly...
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    Newb from Upstate New York

    I ended up having a conversation with my girlfriend yesterday, which first turned out to be more of her yelling at me over messenger while I was at work, but once I was able to leave work and come home we managed to have a civil conversation about it and I'm feeling a ton better like a huge...
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    Polyamorous and demisexual?

    I approach the demisexual label with some uncertainty like I have approached the polyamorous label. However, it makes the most sense for me as I have the best sexual relationships with those who I have clicked with emotionally first. Like the better I get to know someone, the better the sex...
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    Newb from Upstate New York

    Hello all! I am a 25 year old bisexual transgender male (FtM) from Upstate New York who is currently in a monogamous relationship with a cisgirl. We have been together for about 7 years with an 8 month break inbetween. During that break I was in two different very short term relationships with...
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