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    Juntas's Story

    OK I just realized I should probably say something about the current situation with me and Jen and her cluster of relationships. I will start with the V gift situation, I am suspicious of his true intentions. I know that he says he just wants to be secondary but when you give a woman diamonds...
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    What do you think?

    My two cents on this issue, since I read over it, and the only thing she said about my point of view was acknowledging he wanted something familiar, and to go for it. Yes, that is true. The other side of that is they just work better as friends who occasionally have sex. Ronan has never really...
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    Love, Family, Friendship

    So... yeah. I started my blog. I think this makes Jen happy. Honestly, it's the hardest thing I have ever done.
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    Re-introducing myself

    I think I introduced myself when I set this up, I can't remember. So I am John husband to Riftara on this forum. I started a blog and if you follow her then you know a little about me already. So hello everyone.
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    Juntas's Story

    Jen said I should blog so here goes, If you have followed her story you already know how we met and what has gone on in from her point of view. If I am to begin this story I should start in 2009 when Jen and I separated for about a year. I took this really hard and blamed her for everything...
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    Love, Family, Friendship

    I do what I can to make you feel loved, baby. I still feel like I should be able to do more, but I am glad that what I do seems to be enough for you. I love you. Thanks for explaining the differences between me and him.
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    Love, Family, Friendship

    This is Riftara's husband. I have been telling her this since I came home on leave. I wish I could do more to help her deal with what she is going through. She is adding stress to our relationship. It feels like I tell her on a daily basis to just worry about the things that she can control.
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    my intro

    Thanks
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    Veto Arrangements - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    When my wife and I became poly, we decided we would have veto power, and I have only ever used it once, and even then it was after a discussion. And the only reason it came up was due to the guy not accepting the rules and boundaries we had set up, he crossed them and it didn't sit well with...
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    my intro

    So my wife (riftara on these forums) and I are poly and she has been posting on here for a while now, I am in the military and find its difficult for me because I feel like I don't have time. Right now I am pretty much mono, its rough for me since I am always away from my wife due to work and...
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