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You New Zealanders do have quite the international reputation! Here's another survey of New Zealanders though showing a lot of individual variation. So, yes, culture can matter somewhat, but so does individual personality...

BTW, where are you from? I didn't see this listed on your profile. Yes, America is a large diverse place---but people still get laid! IMO, differences in sexual and relationship histories are more often due to personality variations than cultural here (although you do have significant...

I'd like to chime in that a number of women can get half-orgasms, so they feel pleasure and relief (not having the female equivalent of "blue balls"), without a major body "explosion". A woman in this situation can be just fine without a full orgasm in a specific sexual encounter (although...

I definitely wish women were less self-conscious about it and could just think of their vaginas like an ice cream cone being licked and enjoyed. Pussy is yummy!!!! Sorry to hear that. I hope that changes for you. It would be say a nice birthday gift from a woman in your life.

I went to one several years ago, when I was unattached, and it was pleasant enough. I'd much rather cuddle with someone I'm romantically involved with.

I love going down on a woman, but my wife only occasionally wants this. The other women I have been involved with also had mixed feelings about receiving. I myself would go down on a lady pretty much every time I have sex with her! I meanwhile don't mind getting a blow job, but I greatly prefer...

Yes. When people come from a very different place, they often have no idea if and when they are being inappropriate. BTW, IMO, the "always sleep in the same bed" question is something pertinent to discuss with a potential partner. With me, 15 years ago, I met a married woman online who was...

Let me chime in here. (56 yo married heterosexual man BTW.) Like Magdlyn said, if a man is having problems getting it up with one woman, but not with another, it's clearly psychological, not physiological. A mental health professional with expertise and experience treating sexual issues could be...

Myself, I don't have friends wild enough to do stuff like this. If I did, I'd be wary of involving them for casual sex- too complicated for maintaining both the friendship(s) and the primary relationship. I'd feel differently though if I saw potential for a serious romantic relationship with the...

This has me curious, so I am refreshing this thread. I am a 56 y.o. heterosexual married man, poly in mind, but not in actions, at least as of yet. Below are my statistics. I'm showing me mine, now show me yours! Age of losing virginity:18 Number of women I had vaginal intercourse with:4...

This guy definitely sounds abusive. It's one thing for him to be jealous of other guys you're with. That is a normal complicating factor here. It's another for him to compare you unfavorably to other women he's been with. That is way over the line, IMO, in either a poly or mono...

I love to cuddle. (56 yo heterosexual male here BTW. ) I attended one cuddle party, but otherwise only cuddle with women I've dated/been involved with. It does feel a little weird to me to cuddle platonically, even clothed--and I meanwhile have no desire to cuddle with another man. (This is...

My basic thought is don't cause disharmony over theoretical matters. Why risk infuriating your family if you might still be without anyone for a while or even end up in an old fashioned monogamous marriage? There are so many other things that are more urgent to cause trouble over.