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    Should I put the breaks on

    I do have a question for you as I'm sure you have seen this situation many times bf, and as I am someone that likes facts how often do long term married couple start a monopoly relationship and have things work out well.
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    Should I put the breaks on

    I like the analogy, and will give it some thought
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    Should I put the breaks on

    Hi Kevin My wife still has given me the authority to end her relationship with her partner at any time, but I know this would hurt her very much. I'm hoping that I can wrap my head around the whole situation and learn to be ok, I don't know if I can, but I'm willing to try.
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    Should I put the breaks on

    Thank you
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    Should I put the breaks on

    She has told me in the past she would never be ok with me having a emotional bond with anyone but her, and she has asked me to stay mono bc I already have a women at home. She has no interest in other men and also has no intention of looking for any other partners. I have spent almost 20 years...
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    Should I put the breaks on

    Thank you for the advice, it helps a lot coming from someone that understands.
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    Should I put the breaks on

    I am perfectly happy to be monogamous and I understand that me asking her to not fall in love was a shot in the dark, but I know my wife and if the roles were reversed she wouldn't be ok. For me this is one of the hardest things I'm supposed to just be ok with her and this relationship and for...
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    Should I put the breaks on

    It's not that I want them to break up and yes I did a lot of reading and post some other conversations here, but she did not and jumped in head first and didn't want to hear anything i was reading about. So the hardest part about this is she asked me to stay mono bc I'm straight and I have a...
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    Should I put the breaks on

    Three months ago my wife asked for ENM so she could explore her new found bisexuality, I agreed so we both decided I would remain mono and she would not date other men. I told her my expectations were that their relationship would not interfere with our marriage and that I wanted it to be more...
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    I suppose this requires full disclosure, I am not someone that likes to open up about my feelings. I was raised more to keep them bottled up until they are resolved on their own. I do get the feeling that she is leaning more to the side of a one way open relationship or possibly a three some...
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    Thank you for the advice, much appreciated
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    This is what worries me most, that once she gets a taste of her new found freedom I will essentially replaced. Maybe its foolish of me to think this way but it's a real concern
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    She has made it very clear she is not interested in another man, and I was very clear that would be a complete deal breaker for me. We obviously need more communication, I honestly just don't know what to expect
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    And to answer some of your questions she is talking to another married women but also knows she's not looking for any commitment. She did not come out and say this is going to happen weather I like it or not, but did suggest that our future relationship would more than likely fail if she was...
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    Wow I'm not sure if this makes me feel better or worse, but thank you..
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    She has said she is not interested on the hook up culture and that she would be looking for a single person to explore her new found self. But I'm i guess traditional, I could have negative feelings about either path, weather she is building up a body count or falling in "love" with someone...
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    Hi everyone. I am a straight married man my wife of 15 years has decided she wants to explore her bisexuality. For some back story we both work alot me from home and she has a traveling job so we don't get too much time together. This has caused some stress on the both of us, but now with her...
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