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    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    Regardless of whether people agree or not, it still helps to educate people on how the world works.
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    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    Because some monogamous people argue non monogamous relationships are against nature and therefore should not be had. They say non monogamous relationships are unhealthy, dysfunctional, and "destroying the moral fabric of society" lol. The other reason is because women ask "why can't men...
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    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    People can cheat, but I'd say they're less likely to cheat in polyamorous relationships than in monogamous relationships. Why would they need to cheat by keeping a secret relationship when they can just ask you for permission in a non-monogamous relationship? As a side note, cheating is wrong...
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    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    Yes and yes. That's why I became polyamorous. When I was monogamous, I wanted to prove non monogamous relationships were unnatural. If non monogamous relationships are unnatural and unhealthy, people should stick to monogamy.
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    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    What do you think about the arguments against polyamory? Do you think they are valid or not? One of the arguments against polyamory is STD's. I don't think this is a valid argument because monogamous relationships also have risk of STD's. We have birth control and other safety measures to...
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    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    Right, scientists are currently studying certain genes in promiscuous people. These genes are responsible for risky behavior such as gambling and watching horror films. They are currently trying to see if there's a strong link between this gene and promiscuous behavior. People can change...
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    Are we hardwired for multiple partners? If so, what are the implications?

    I've done a bit of scientific research and found we're hardwired for more than one partner. Here's a few facts I've learned. * A survey was conducted on 16,000 people from every continent. Participants said they wanted more than one sexual partner...
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    How to build attraction with people

    Right, you can generalize to some degree. That's why people in scientific fields do surveys so they can figure out how many people follow certain patterns.
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    How to build attraction with people

    :LOL: This isn't meant to tell you what all women want. It's telling you what most women want. For example, would you want a random man sending you nude pics or a man disrespecting you and your family? Most women wouldn't lol. Of course, what each person wants is going to vary based on their...
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    Coming out as polyamorous is hard

    :LOL: :LOL: :ROFLMAO: :ROFLMAO:
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    How to build attraction with people

    This is my guide on how to build attraction and get in a relationship. Be friendly - Be friendly. Smile, laugh, tell jokes, flirt, have good hygiene, etc. Alot of women open up to guys who do this. No one wants to hang out with someone who is uptight, angry, toxic, and always serious. Be...
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    The benefits of polyamory

    By the way, people forget it's not always possible for your monogamous partner to fulfill all of your needs the way you want. I got involved with several foreign women. They couldn't spend much time with me because they had to work hard to support themselves and their family. If one was too busy...
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    Coming out as polyamorous is hard

    It's supported by science. Monogamy is quite rare in the animal world. Many societies are polyamorous. Monogamy is a modern invention. https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/not-born-yesterday/201605/monogamy-is-not-natural-human-beings
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    The benefits of polyamory

    I think it's very hard for people in monogamous relationships to admit people are replaceable. They tend to make one person their everything, but are actually dishonest. I used to be like that. I said stuff like "I love you.. I want you.." to a woman I thought was the only one for me. Later, I...
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    The benefits of polyamory

    Of course, break ups are gonna hurt in any relationship. I'm not saying they're not. What I'm saying is they hurt less when you're in polyamorous relationships as opposed to a monogamous relationship. It's harder for someone to break up in a monogamous relationship especially if they invested so...
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    How do I tell my husband?

    Validate his emotions and talk about polyamory with him. Unfortunately, you might not be compatible with your husband. Initially, you agreed to have a monogamous relationship. You're going to have to accept he has a right to leave. You can try to convince him to change from monogamy to...
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    The coolest thing happened last night

    Sounds like she finally embraced polyamory lol.
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    A little insight plz

    Did her man know she was polyamorous before they got married? If not, she's probably keeping secrets and cheating. If so, It sounds like he's insecure and not being honest with her. He's anxious over losing her so he's settling for a decision he's not comfortable with to keep her. How are you...
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    The benefits of polyamory

    What benefits does polyamory have in your view?
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    Coming out as polyamorous is hard

    I would like to add women who chase the "bad boys" tend to have issues with their fathers. They chase these men because they remind them of their abusive or neglectful fathers. Secure women would never do this. There was a study done which proved this claim. I also noticed more women pursued...
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