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    Making new connections- How do you do it?

    Any advice for people that would have to drive an hour in a few directions? Let me just put it this way, if I bothered to try and make friends around here in my age range: Meth. I don't want to be around drug users. Here, they would have no problem slipping that shit in to get their new buddies...
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    Tried Poly...GF Freaked Out and Ended Relationship

    If I even see Christianity in the Religion section that person is automatically passed over. Some people don't have Religion listed and most of the time it turns out it's because they are Christian and didn't want to be looked over because of it. From my experience the sleepers are the worst...
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    Are these good profiles?

    The message me if section is what's fucking it up tbh. And I've seen some pretty demanding ones where people basically say not to fuck up your first message to them. Yours falls into the demanding department with the first sentence under it. That's why I got rid of it. - You might as well have...
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    Are these good profiles?

    My self-summary Hello everyone, Tokunerd here. I am a little socially awkward at first but less so once I get more comfortable around others. [I was going to just leave the greeting by itself to be honest] I am very open-minded, adventurous, as well as possessing an unusual sense of humor. I...
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    Are these good profiles?

    Don't all browsers have automatic spell check on anyhow? I'm using chrome and it automatically tells me I spelled something wrong by underlining it in red crinkles. _____ Some of the About Me looked similar to another profile I've come across. Poly paragraph: apologies needs to turn into...
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    With the degree of con described that's highly unlikely. I still say leave, the only thing you'd be depriving him of is you. And seriously, start looking at lawyers. Because if you aren't going to legally separate or get a divorce, your money is at stake.
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    Just Married, Now Probably Over

    Like I said, old marriage ideals and disrespectful to you up to now from what has been described. Just clean break now, imo you're just dragging it out.
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    in need of advice - financial issues

    You may have to be legally separated. Since you're married and if you work, child support will be determined by both your income. Not just his. That means you will be making payments to that manipulative scum out of your paycheck. If she's this bad it's not hard to imagine that she will be the...
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    Polyamory and Ethnicity

    Well shit I must have hit the lottery. Black (mixed but not really all that significant. Native American but not much), pan (huuuge leaning towards women), poly :p. Really only out on the internet minus facebook (family on it). From my observations I find that it's just better to keep my mouth...
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    Guys who argue against protection

    If we would stop cutting off foreskins for cosmetic and laziness reasons (not including religious), condoms wouldn't be as "annoying" as claimed.
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    One Penis Policy

    My goodness you have the elitist type of ace attitude. I was debating even calling that out. Lucky because you're ace? Please get over yourself. You find it hard to relate, I have to ask why you even bothered with the mini series tirade. I'm ace but come on :rolleyes:. I'd have just left it...
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    GF came to me with concerns about new man

    Forgot about the twelve-hour edit thing. Reading through again, the guy also seems like a narcissist. But again, that's only what's described here, other than a potential serial killer. (My bias here. I know I need to stop watching those shows. :p) OPSEC = operational security. Please suggest...
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    GF came to me with concerns about new man

    I'm biased because I watch way too many crime shows, and I just caught a repeat of one involving someone that was acting the way this guy does. Run like the gingerbread man. I'd also start doing some OPSEC, if I were her, just to make sure she isn't already being stalked.
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    One Penis Policy

    ^I'm sorry but reading the last paragraph cracked me up. I don't get the policy and never will because I think every reason displayed so far makes no sense to me. Other than "not in my backyard" but that attributes the partner to being some sort of property... All fine and good if it's a woman...
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    Okcupid help

    I only answered what I felt like. Because I was on there for finding friends only (going to try elsewhere now), I didn't really answer the sexually explicit stuff. When I did answer something I had fun and went to town with it.
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    Astrological Compatibility in Poly Relationships...feedback?

    Off the top of my head from comparing those two before, they are in the least compatible department. From my end it was because the person's behavior was kind of "out there" imo. But at the same time they like to troll people (not the shit-stirring kind). We're somewhat friends (chat a few times...
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    Just Married, Now Probably Over

    I didn't say there was an obligation by any age to know if you're childfree or not. Your entire assumption reasoning for that is exactly why people like me are having a hard time to get sterilized young. Sure there are people that are on the fence for a long time, but there are also plenty...
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    Just Married, Now Probably Over

    I do not believe you should have even reached the marriage stage. It's not probably over, it is. First thing was the kids issue. Kids are one of the main deal breakers of a serious relationship. The description of being on the fence and then basically leaning childfree but then that was up in...
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    Poly-swinger-ish-advice needed

    As for finding therapists try sorting by video enabled (usually skype). I live in the middle of nowhere in a tourist town. There are all of 3(? last I checked) in the actual town and the rest of the 20 or so are 50 miles away. None are for what I need. So I've settled for this self help site I...
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    Libido Inequality= Deal Breaker?

    Please don't throw around asexual like it's a behavior (equating it to low/really low libido or celibacy, which is not the same thing). It doesn't make sense in either differing definitions. I understand there is sexual fluidity but not with the way it was flung around. Misusing it promotes...
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