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I had posted months ago.....gosh, it seems like ages, now. My husband and I were involved with another woman, and we were all sexually involved, but the love relationship truly occurred between she and I. My husband was great, through all of it. Needless to say, he enjoyed himself in the...

She is, Kevin! I agree with you, too, that family is very much those you surround yourself with, who truly love you. I struggle with being able to recognize the parts of her life where she may need autonomy. I am not sure she knows, either? That is something we are working through, really...

Husband and my's gf has basically no family. Her brother died at 40 and her dad has disowned her since she came out to him about our V. It's so awful. I have this desire to envelope our family around her, and she is so glad that I have shared that with her. It is something that I have never...

Shaya, we are all human, with sensitivities, and to be jealous is something that just.....happens. Being the jealous type that can't even hear about a partner's sexual past, or the like is over the top. When jealousy is incited in us, it's much more understandable. People being insensitive to...

This sounds incredibly painful.....I am sorry this is happening in your world!! In my opinion, your mention of having children is of UTMOST importance. They are, after all, children, and have no say in what their adult counterparts get into. I have two, myself, and have had to eat a slice of...

But now, as I re-read the post, GalaGirl is right on. Get the fuck out. Worry about everything else later. This is all too much for a person to handle. I am so sorry...... I send you good vibes, Reiki, and crossed fingers that you can muster up courage to leave. I have been where you are...

Mioux, I feel so much for you. It is a disaster, already. It isn't even waiting to happen. If you want to find out just how much this man loves you, stop supporting him. Although you love him deeply, if he loves you in the same way, he will understand that you need to do some things to...

Quick update..... So my Dad is sending myself, my sisters, my Mom, and all the kids to Maui next week. So grateful......(can't wait, to show my 5 year old what it looks like underwater...)... So, I have been talking to my Mom, who has kinda disappeared (we used to talk a few times a week)...

I'll also add that she was someone Husband and I played with, but she and I met in 2005. We were close friends for a few years, then lost touch due to weird previous marriages we were both in, then reconnected in 2014. We have been very close ever since. Obviously.... haha

Oh dear. I am so sorry to hear this. Your emotion is spilling onto the computer, this is really difficult for you. I am in no position of authority on this topic, but I can tell you for sure, that TALKING is just about the best thing you can do. Communicate, and communicate some more. There...

I love this- and I absolutely would.

Those are excellent points, guys, thank you very much. I'll take the time to get much more specific, and the whole quoting thing confuses me, most of the time, so I'll try to respond to each thingie.... Our "relationship" started out like this: she was someone Husband and I played with on a...

^^^^ this.

I understand and appreciate this insight, thank you. We are keeping these things in mind. Husband is an incredible man, and has done things, in his way, to make her feel safe and secure. He has shared with her, on his own, that she always has a place here, in our family. She has a room in...

Yes, you are correct, Magdlyn... It was more regarding our ability to comfortable have coffee talk about our sexual endeavors, the TMI, etc. We are like hens, usually, and will sit, and laugh and chat about everything, but that became hard for me. I didn't like how I felt when I heard about...

This is a great suggestion. She tried to have babies and was unsuccessful, and has given up on the prospect. Luckily, I believe in the "it takes a village" theory, and I have two daughters that not only adore her, she adores them. It is lovely to see. I have made it clear to her that I...

This. I have never thought of this concept. Jesus. Every day is turning out to be a school day......

Let me also side note: I said she is not in love with anyone- outside of she and I. We are both very much in love with one another.

Thank you for standing up for people who feel jealous, and ram their heads against the wall in self hatred because they can't buck up and accept what "is". I am going through a very rough patch that has been chaotic, then very calm and supportive, then back to chaotic, since last July. To do...

I have always thought it strange- that I have never met him. I feel weird asking that, I'd think she'd want me to meet him, since they've had such an intense and extraordinary time together. It makes me sad, but there's not a lot I can do about that. Demanding it seems bossy, and requesting...