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I feel for your girlfriend on this matter. I am alot like her in the sense that I care about how people will react. Not 100% because of how it will affect me but more so how it will affect the kids. They are young now (6, 2, 1) but eventually they will be older and other kids and people can be...

Most definitely! Even harder is finding something 3 grown adults can agree on lol. When it was just me and DH I had the over all say in how the house was done because he always seen it as "my domain" its most certainty more complicated with another woman's input lol

Its just hard finding something that is big enough for all of us and also be in a good area and allow pets.

Yes! We will not buy a trailer but would rent one for sure

Sparkles has 1 girl who is 6. She got evicted from her place because she stood up to her skeevey landlord.

That is definitely one of the options we are looking into.the I only concern is the over all cost and finding such place in general. It is so hard to find space for a larger family! We found a house that would have been perfect size wise but it was in a very bad area of town. With little kids...

Oh no I totally get everybody's situations, opinions, and practices are different.

Mainly because although we are a triad, their relationship together is still very new between them. They while they are attracted to eachother and such they have made it known that i am the glue that holds it all together. Outside of that they wouldn't typically have entered into a relationship...

Sparkles doesn't want us to all share a room. She wants her own space. With the kids and the fact that we do want more we definitely can't afford for us to each have our own room. Also, I am still nursing my son and my kids often come climb in bed with us at some point in time during the night...

We can't buy a house at the moment. We all have bad credit and its going to be about a year or so to get that up. So it will be just renting for right now. Currently we are in a 3 bedroom house. DH and I have a room, Sparkles has a room, and the kids (6,2, and 1) are all in one room. We do have...

DH, Sparkles, me, and the kids have been living together now for 7 months. Obviously, only the last month or so has been as a triad. The home we are in now is just too small to continue living this way. We have decided to look for a bigger house or two houses that are side by side or duplex. It...

New to Poly and love your advice So I am pretty new to poly. I have posted about my relationships Here http://www.polyamory.com/forum/showthread.php?t=78013 I came across your post and well I feel like you are the perfect person to ask advice from! A couple of weeks ago we decided to try...

In my previous post introducing myself, I had someone who mentioned reading up on unicorn hunters. Well I did! I found several very interesting articles and a ton of good advice! Well I do not think my husband I fall into that category it did help to bring to light why some people didn't seem...

You make a very good point! I will have to keep this in mind.

I guess the need for a trail period is just that we aren't coming out to very many people until after it.

We know that legally DH and I will have no rights to Mini and there is not much we can do about that since her father is in her life. We have not come out to my family or DH's. Sparkles's family already knows and they are happy for her. They know how much I mean to her and she to me. They just...

clarification I think maybe I didn't make it clear enough in my first post. This is NOT just about sex. As a matter of fact the sex aspect of it is a relatively small part in what we all want. We already operate as a family unit. I have been there for her (Sparkles) and her daughter (Mini) from...

Hi! I have been lurking around here for a month or so now and finally decided to make a post introducing myself. I am a married bisexual woman. I have been married for 5 years now and have 2 amazing children. Before I married my husband I had a on again off again relationship with my best...