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    BF wants to take new GF on vacation

    When people show you who they really are believe them. Why are you even with this man who has basically said that you are a place holder and will be replaced?
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    New to Poly!

    Love may be infinite but time is finite. Right now I am searching for a new job because right now I do not have a decent work life balance and my husbands and children are paying the price. Last year I took a position with a 60% pay raise. But now I am gone out of my homes 60+ hours a week due...
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    Covid precautions and couples privilege

    It isn't about being unclean it is about keeping vulnerable people in our lives safe. I just went 3 weeks not seeing Murf my husband due to his employer requiring people who were exposed through their spouses or family who resided with them but without symptoms to still come to work. It just...
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    How do you decide if someone is toxic?

    Easy only let them see your posts about Little girl. Just change your privacy settings.
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    Am I doing the right thing?

    Sometimes love is not enough. And it is not fair to put the burden of your mental health on your partner. It is not his job to provide you stability. You cheated on your fiance by talking to someone else online. Marriage should be the least of your concerns right now.
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    Privacy in a relationship

    I do not share personal details of my relationship with my other partner. I respect their privacy. I find looking at a phone while spending time with someone else incredibly rude and inconsiderate.
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    How can they be behind on cat neuters.They take less than 2 minutes literally. They are the easiest procedure.
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    Wife is poly

    I will tell you the boundaries I have with Butch His home is his castle no other partners may stay the night. No moving partners in No diverting hard money (aka my portion of the household bills) to provide for another partner. Do not neglect the kids household chores or household pets Safer...
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    Libido Inequality= Deal Breaker?

    The ok is not even an active member anymore. Why the necropostropost from 6 years ago.
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    Disentanglement

    DH... In the post you are talking about the OP never once mentioned giving up the pot smoking stud just the husband giving up the bimbo.
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    Hinge Under Pressure

    Other members here are much more detailed in their posts. Honestly I do not have the time nor the energy to construct long detailed posts. Plus I am just direct and to the point kind of person anyway. Please do not think I am criticizing you... B's insecurities are his to deal with. It is not...
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    Income Disparity Between Partners. How do I navigate vacations and finances?

    Murf and I have been on many nice vacations as Murfs treat. Murf has no children, has not had any big health issues (where I have jad 6 surgeries on 5 years) and is very very frugal the rest of the year. Butch has been envious but he just deals with those feelings. I do not rub it in with...
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    I changed my mind about Poly.

    Rereading the thread I noticed that the OP made no mention of giving up Mike just her husband stop seeing his gf. You do not get to have your cake and eat it too. You told Brad he is a horrible sex partner and expect him to financially support a grown man who puts his weed above...
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    I changed my mind about Poly.

    Elie the young woman dating your husband is not a bimbo aand calling her such is petty and immature. Grow the hell up. You are just jealous that you hooked up with a loser. It is not Brad's job to finance Mike's life. Butch does not pay for my dates with Murf. Murf doesn't pay for my dates with...
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    Fun and Frolic With Long-Term Love

    As a licensed veterinary technician I would be concerned that you could have FeCV (feline corona virus)/FIP in your home brought in from the shelter. It is highly contagious. So keep your other cats far away from the kitten room. Do not even let them outside the door.
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    Special occasion time dedication

    I would give hubby his weekend but the following weekend would be Boy's to spend with me.
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    The dynamics of poly relationships- dissertation

    I would answer your survey but not giving my e-mail address due to security concerns.
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    curiousity....MFM

    Polyamory is not about group sex.
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    I think I was a unicorn and I don't know how to move forward

    Run... This relationship will never go well.
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    Is it wrong of me to feel this way?

    Poly never fixes a broken relationship. It just magnifies the issues.
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