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Is it wrong to ask? Of course not. What you are really asking us is if it's wrong to expect or demand it. My answer to that is "Yes". I remember asking you about this on an earlier thread. You claimed she wanted you to participate. I suspected she was simply agreeing to make you feel...

Talk to your partner, not your meta. Personally, when people play games like that I ignore it. This isn't really about you. It's about her inability to act like an adult. Giving her attention only feeds that. I would be more concerned that your partner doesn't see this and take action.

Is she wrong that you and Honey would choose each other over her? I mean, you still refer to "We" and "Her" as if you and Honey are a couple and she is an outsider. You even referred to her as "Third". I'm not saying you don't have the best of intentions. I'm not even saying you are completely...

I have to give them credit for admitting their mistakes, even if they do walk it back in a couple spots. Hopefully, now that the "survivor's" have regained control of their own stories, they can move forward and gain closure.

You are not wrong for wanting to be the primary, but you are wrong for assuming that is the default. As has been said, you are negotiating a new marriage. Just remember to use tact during your negotiation. Making demands will not get you there.

Plus, she's a Democrat. Cheating on all three wives, bragging about sexual assault, and nude pics of the first lady didn't hurt Trump at all. Being part of a triad was pretty tame in comparison.

It's not abnormal. You are going through some changes. You are going to have feelings all over the place. What you feel today may not be what you feel tomorrow. You could find this is something that excites you. Or participating could be giving you some comfort because it doesn't feel so out of...

Thanks to our Republican governor we have no reliable data for our state. Broward and Dade counties will start opening on Monday. We'll see how it goes.

Hi and welcome. First off, I'll say none of this is your fault. You are doing nothing wrong. I feel the same way about threesomes. Good fun, but would be tedious to only have sex that way. You say you are in a triad, but you're not really. Triads don't have thirds. You are in a couple + 1. You...

It's ok to say no that if you want.

I missed this part. Is that what they are into, or are you assuming that it is your right to join in?

While some people do explore non-monogamy to try and fill some missing thing in their relationship, we are not all like that. Making that assumption is part of the monogamous conditioning most of us were raised with.

It's perfectly natural to feel jealous and anxious right now. You are redefining your marriage. Your wife left but came back. The good news is she did come back. But your main problem is going to be that your heart isn't in this. If you want this to work long term you need to embrace poly for...

Here in the US, if you tell someone to wear a mask you get shot. It's in the 2nd Amendment. Also, apparently the state of Georgia allows the hunting of humans now. But that might not be coronavirus related.

I think we've all run into mono people who have that view. They will defend monogamy with an almost religious fervor. I agree with Karen that it is best to just cut ties with this person. It's not you, it's them.

I really don't have a good feeling about this plan to re-open everything. I know this isn't a movie, but this plot has been played out a hundred times. People in charge making decisions based on greed and the retention of power. Art imitates life.

So the crux of the "problem" is that she loves both of you and you only want her to love you? It sounds like she failed some sort of test you made up - if she loves you she will stop seeing him. What you are experiencing is very common with couples who open up to have casual only...

You gave them an ultimatum. They tried to do the open thing. It didn't work. Why stay? Forget about the whole sex thing for a moment. What about the lack of honesty? The games? The lack of real communication? How is that amazing? If you two are incompatible, then you are incompatible.

Well that's the thing. You can't. You told her the truth and she chose not to believe you. In order to accept it she has to examine why she believes what she does. I'm sure a lot of it results from the social conditioning surrounding monogamy. I realize it is frustrating, but some people will...

There is a current thread in which a guy is starting an online LDR with a couple of very young women. Some if us are cautioning him that it might be too good to be true. I was feeling kind of bad that I was peeing on his parade. Then I was contacted online by a young lady who said she was...