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Hey Kevin. I will keep you updated. I've had great advice from all of you here. The proof is in the eating. Lol

Hey Kevin, It's promising. I am chatting with a guy who is serious about long-term poly, with interest in an intimate & meaningful connection. He has done his research. Hope to meet face-to-face soon. I know it's not just about words, but a strong commitment to showing up. It's an exploration...

Hi guys. Yes, l have redirected this guy. Actually, it's liberating to tell them to bugger off. Thank you again.

Thanks, Kevin.. He isn't the only one. It's awfully tempting. But l accepted crumbs the last time, and it broke me. I don't think l am emotionally strong to just do the sex thing, let alone that l have him do the same as the last guy.

I've been doing my reading on ENM & CNM. I don't think he is either of those. Both require some form of commitment, especially where it comes to allocating time. Safe to say, he is just on a sexploration. The possible sex antics sound amazing. Do l ask him what can he give me? Or just put it...

I have stepped back after a not-so-great trip into poly. I need some advice about a guy who says he is ENM. He wrote this. I just want an opinion, as all he has talked about in his texts is what he likes to do sexually with women. "I think it’s possible we might be looking for different things...

Thanks. All good things take time. Learning self kindness is a challenge.

I wish l had known about polyamory 20 yrs ago. It would have been defining moment to have started a journey back then. I know age shouldnt define ones experience. It would be wonderful to have more than one person to love.

Thanks again. I feel a tad emotionally fried. But l will look at some of the resources when my mind has settled. It's likely over-exposure. Polyamory will always prove intriguing. You members are like books, living resources.

Thanks Kevin l am still curious bout polyamory. Perhaps l will engage with someone who follows through with the principles of poly. Regards Tania

If one was to engage as a rookie into polyamory. I know l have asked before? If you could condense the basic principles to start a polyamory journey, what would you build with? As there is so much information to process. I did enrol into a workshop. Which l should return to. Got disheartened by...

Hunnybunny, the above contributors are giving solid grounded advice. Foremost, you have to care for your emotional well-being and your needs. NRE can overwhelm your judgement. I learnt the hard way. A guy may make promises, but not be able to provide you with the safe and nurturing relationship...

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Eyes wide open..Cheers

I fell off the horse. But l got back on. I realised Kile has freed me up to meet other guys. This time l have to not lose my head.

Indeed. This was the hardest lesson. Establishing my needs. Reading so many others who have established healthy poly fills me with optimism. Having many who love & adore you. Sounds wonderful. I know it comes with work. love fits into real life, rather than usurping it. It’s calm, not overwhelming.

Its been a journey. Hope to learn more about myself & how l can establish whats important to me, giving myself a stronger voice whether its in polyamory or monogamy. Thankyou Kevin

The little thing was of great value to me. He didnt hold to majority of his words. Glad he wasnt polyamory finest example. I have to move forward however painful. Looking for hens teeth. I cant give up. You are most kind Kevin

Thanks again. Apparently he was full of hot air. I still miss him. Perhaps l was addicted to the physicality. I deserve someone who is willing to show up & give me equal time.

Thanks Kevin, It feels reassuring from your words. As l pushed for more time which l didnt feel anywhere being needy, & prioritising time, consistency was a battle. Getting no action was a mental strain. Felt he let my polyamory experience down. Bullet dodged. I know l wont always feel this...