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It is certainly hard and I'm guessing one of the larger hurdles to overcome? Obviously we...messed up pretty hard missing the disentanglement step. I...must be honest....I am not sure how to distance myself from the drama with Pixie(though I understand trying not to be invested in every little...

Well things have still been a little rocky but it's getting better. After some more arguing, debating, tears, and heartfelt talks a lot more has been released. Mr. Uni and Pixie pretty much have free reign to do as they please now. The only two things left are up north and the renfaire...but the...

I wanted to make a habit of posting things here when they are good too and not just when I am being a melodramatic mess. Today went reasonably well actually. Yesterday wasn't the best because everything was so raw from a pretty hellish week. I'm doing pretty well with the given advice. Still a...

Since this wall of words took several hours to compose my railing against a therapist came early in the night. Later in the night I finally agreed so we are trying to find one that takes our insurance(Mr.Uni is currently seeing one and he is going to ask her if she has any professional...

Holy...wow....I am at a loss for sufficient words. I am stunned at how deeply that hit and, after some digging and another rocky talk, I do realize that...I've been too focused on trying to control what is happening between Mr. Uni and Pixie. Obviously it's worked out about as well as more...

I texted him shortly after to apologize. I realize that I wasn't being fair and that I was sorry for getting upset. Also that I bathed Hermes today and he is sooooo softums and smells good. Nothing. After a while I realized how much lighter and calm I felt after hours of anxiety. Just laying out...

After the movie I go upstairs to say goodnight and am met with a shocked and elated Mr. Uni. He read the chapter about NRE and, finally, realized he was still cause in it's icy hot grips. All the issues with us, and his with Pixie's desire for more partners, was all wrapped in in that still...

-04FEB21: We make plans for our first official date day. First it was for a local brewery but, since it was close to a museum, I suggested we hit up the museum as well. It was enthusiastically agreed to. Things were looking up at last. Finally, a day set aside for me. It was something that...

-01FEB21: Lots of talk had to happen. I cried the whole way driving to school but Japanese class has a habit of helping. With the need to focus it takes my mind off of things and I love the linguistic adventure. I am glad that Mr.Uni was able to help a 'friend' in need even if it hurt me. Why I...

-01Jan2021: Mr.Uni is awake before me to go to the park. I get up, have my first coffee of the new year(special coffee of course because it is the first.) I get a text telling me (TELLING, not asking) he was going to Pixie's to see the dogs she is dog sitting. At first I shrugged it off, annoyed...

(It takes a while but I embraced Mermaid back into my life and things truck along well enough barring the usual marital issues(for the love of God put the toilet seat DOWN! lol)) -Fall 2018: Mr. Uni decided to wait until I went to bed one night to creep out and do a scene with Mermaid. I was...

I kept meaning to get one of these going but every time I remembered to do it...it was in a bad place and...well, quite frankly, I don't want to focus on just the bad. Even if, lately, that's been that status quo I figured it was time to get this going while things are...ok. Suppose I should...

Hey there! I am pretty new to this world and all so take my thoughts with a grain of salt. I can sympathize with your need for that sexual release and with your wife' s concerns. I'm....I suppose sort of in the same boat as your wife(the still working super hard on mindshift from mono part) but...

Wow good morning everyone! Thank you all for taking the time to say hi, offer kind words, and advice! Hey there @3908 Thank you for the welcome:DIt's pretty astounding when you feel something but have nothing to fit it into a first and when you find out it's an insane, and sometimes awesome...

That’s a fair point. Perhaps blogs aren’t, always, the best place to go. Especially when already in a low state of mind. Lately it’s been the land mines and, yeah, it’s been quite exhausting. More often than not we bring it up again after the dust settles and have a better, more rational...

Hi Evie! Thank you for the kind and warm welcome. Writing does help a lot. I RP as a hobby so writing is often the best outlet for me. Though new to the forum, it is especially heartwarming and hopeful to find community with this new world. The revelation came about in an odd way. It was a...

Edit: Figured I should put this at the top because I realize my error. My screen name might be misleading. I'm not a "unicorn" as defined in the polyamory realm. I...just like unicorns and have tattoos. I've also put this in my profile description. My apologies for any confusion. Been a while...