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    When to tell the kids

    We are going for 2weeks.:D:D Well see how sex will work out. We will be happy sleeping together.
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    When to tell the kids

    We have been talking about the kids together the 3of us. We all agreed that we don't wanna lie to the kids and that they have to feel safe asking questions. We have decided to tell them D is special to us and he'll be coming over more often. And we tell them that D will be sleeping together...
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    Dutch guy's search.

    We are home again. D is doing some model work, P is having tea with a friend of her. I went to the beach with the kids. They're playing in the water now. Still feeling fuzzy from the love hormones:D:D My smile is not leaving my face for the coming days. We have been cuddling on the couch than...
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    Dutch guy's search.

    We are so happy and content. Had a great night D is brewing his coffee. P and I are making tea. Just had our breakfast. Still foggy from last night.
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    Dutch guy's search.

    Kids are at grandma's. Woke up took a long shower shaved myself. Put on a nice parfume. Put on my new underwear. P is clearly nervous. :D Packing her bag. Finally we are leaving for D. We have the whole weekend:D:D:D:D:DDD
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    Dutch guy's search.

    D was here for me to practice massage techniques on him. Have to do this for school. So it was serious. After this we had breakfast together this was nice. He has gone home to sleep we are going to visit friends to look at they're new baby. Had some stolen kisses in the hallway.:DD P to. No...
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    Dutch guy's search.

    D is coming:D:D:D:D:DD right from his nightshift. Happy happy His last shift this week so were together at last. I have 2 nights to go and the kids go to granny. The whole weekend its just the 3 of us. Feel like a teen
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    When to tell the kids

    I wanna know how and what did you tell them and when. I'm here to ask and learn to make the right choice. So yes I want to hear you're feedback. And the glasses are rose colour I'm a hopeless romantic. Luckily I have a strong reasonable wife to support me. Next Saturday we will talk about the...
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    When to tell the kids

    Who who its not all that heavy. We want them to know D is a special friend. And that there is not something very secret going on. They have to feel safe asking questions. We are not going to share our whole love life with them. We want them not to be afraid to ask questions. They known D there...
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    Gender

    Her parents brother friends hoped that coming out changed her and this happend for a few years. The alcoholism killed the person who was liked and loved. Not the transition. So you're right it has nothing to do with gender being a nice person. In Holland we used to have quite good health care...
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    Dutch guy's search.

    Strangest thing last night. P an I were making fun of the whole trouple relationship and talking about hypothetical future's just for good fun. So I ask P how about D finding a girl and she being OK with the situation and wanting to join. How about you and her. She told to be wanting to have sex...
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    Gender

    Difficult topic. I know two people with gender problems one of them a total piece of shit male to female. Used to be a nice person till he started drinking. Got sober again and told about his gender problems got in transition being a nice person again and started drinking again and got a total...
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    Dutch guy's search.

    D had been working all day yesterday than had a very boring birthday party yesterday (his aunt). P and I were at home. D fled the party become a friend of his aunt (a well known politician) was there and it got boring very fast not his political choice. He came to our place to cuddle and sleep P...
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    When to tell the kids

    My wife asked the kids if they want to sleep in the tent alone and they said. No, we want in the big tent and D has to sleep on you're bed, because its sad for him to sleep alone. OK not really expected this. Not had THE talk with the kids. Think it will work out in the end:D:D
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    Dutch guy's search.

    Finally got a day off. Had a little accident at work yesterday, got hit by an elevator door the sensors failed. Glad not one of the elderly got hit. Been drinking tea at D's place he felt a little down because his car got damaged by someone who was parking.
  16. M

    Mono boyfriend having trouble coping

    Want to wish you a lot of wisdom luck and love with your girlfriend. I hope for you both it works out OK. Being bisexual my self I can understand her struggle with her sexuality. Being bi looks fun from the outside but besides dating its more of a handicap, you have to make more desisions than...
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    When to tell the kids

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    When to tell the kids

    My mental health is stable the problems I have are here for years. They are a part of who im. We are not making life changing choices now. D keeps his own house and will be living there. there will be sleepovers. The only real change is he sleeping with P and Me. The holiday will be a test to...
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    Why and how did you get into poly?

    We accidentally fell in to this, I'm bisexual and fell in love with a friend I didn't want to do anything with this feelings. This friend also bisexual also fell in love with me. Now my wife is also fell in love with him and we have a poly relationship.
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    POLL: Bedsheets and multiple partlerns

    We change every other week. When she has her period more often when there is blood on the sheets. Personally I like clean sheets it just feels good. Blankets get washed every season.
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