So far I I'm very happy with the tips and help here on this forum.
My apologies for the sometimes strange sentences that I use English isn't my first language and in Holland we only do British English at school.
I,m not used to write in English so its kind of rusty.
Some times I use words and sentences that mean something different in your country my apologies for this I don't want to offended anybody. The cultural differences are difficult for me.
So I like to write about my new discovered sexual orientation.
Before the 11th of may I've never heard about polyamory knew the the word polygamy and had the association with artists painters and cheating.
So I was pleasantly surprised that wat I feel is quite normal.
Always thought I am monogamous because I don't give in to romantic feelings for someone other than my wife, although she is OK with me having a sexual but not romantic relationship with a man.
Also I don't believe that sexuality with out love is satisfying for me.
I feel attraction to people who are interesting to me not especially a man or a woman.
Of course I like to look at beautiful people. For woman I like plus size for man I like manly man and dark or Arabic man.
But my wife I fell in love with because her believes and interest match mine.
We were interested in witchcraft and that's how we met.
Our first date was a month later because we wanted to watch the same movie and she didn't have a car.
Later we went to the zoo with the pagan group where we met this was the first time we kissed.
Long story short.
She accepted me being bi and enjoyed looking at pretty man with me.
Got pregnant this was something I valued before marriage.
Marriage both took each other's sir name so we both have birth name than married name.
Because we value to be equal.
Our 3girls have my birth name because in Holland you can't give children 2sir names.
And now we fell in to a polyamorous relationship with one of our best friends.
We are happy with this but scared to because of the reactions we might get.
I found this forum an now im looking forward to learn more about myself and relationship s.
Already learned a lot from reading the introduction and the names of the types of relationships.
Very good work the mods do here an thanks to everyone sharing stories.
So much for today.
My apologies for the sometimes strange sentences that I use English isn't my first language and in Holland we only do British English at school.
I,m not used to write in English so its kind of rusty.
Some times I use words and sentences that mean something different in your country my apologies for this I don't want to offended anybody. The cultural differences are difficult for me.
So I like to write about my new discovered sexual orientation.
Before the 11th of may I've never heard about polyamory knew the the word polygamy and had the association with artists painters and cheating.
So I was pleasantly surprised that wat I feel is quite normal.
Always thought I am monogamous because I don't give in to romantic feelings for someone other than my wife, although she is OK with me having a sexual but not romantic relationship with a man.
Also I don't believe that sexuality with out love is satisfying for me.
I feel attraction to people who are interesting to me not especially a man or a woman.
Of course I like to look at beautiful people. For woman I like plus size for man I like manly man and dark or Arabic man.
But my wife I fell in love with because her believes and interest match mine.
We were interested in witchcraft and that's how we met.
Our first date was a month later because we wanted to watch the same movie and she didn't have a car.
Later we went to the zoo with the pagan group where we met this was the first time we kissed.
Long story short.
She accepted me being bi and enjoyed looking at pretty man with me.
Got pregnant this was something I valued before marriage.
Marriage both took each other's sir name so we both have birth name than married name.
Because we value to be equal.
Our 3girls have my birth name because in Holland you can't give children 2sir names.
And now we fell in to a polyamorous relationship with one of our best friends.
We are happy with this but scared to because of the reactions we might get.
I found this forum an now im looking forward to learn more about myself and relationship s.
Already learned a lot from reading the introduction and the names of the types of relationships.
Very good work the mods do here an thanks to everyone sharing stories.
So much for today.
