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Very very good point. And from what I'm reading in the More Than Two book, sometimes an agreement that sounds great at the time starts to hurt people and not serve them later as things change.

Thank you, I like that, very much! We have decided to review our agreements every 6 months, anticipating changing needs and desires. Of course, if something really is not working before that time, we will address that issue sooner.

Bat, thanks for your encouragement! It's all still new and we are figuring things out. Often make mistakes even though we all have the best of intentions.

A) If the rule was fair and all parties agreed to it with good intentions, and it is violated, it would cause me personally to question the stability and health of the whole relationship. ex. do not have unprotected sex, as it might put us all at risk of STI's. B) If the rule was made under...

Thanks for your thoughtful reply. :) Right now I am very happy with the way things are. I think my life has balance and fulfillment. I am not sure yet if I would be happy if things were to stay the way they are indefinitely. At some point my kids will grow up and leave home and I may have...

The book More Than Two has been a great read for me. I am working my way through each chapter and seeing what things we have done right, wrong, and things we need to think about. My Beloved asked me several weeks ago if this relationship as it stands is enough for me. He and his life partner...

I know every arrangement is different, and everyone's comfort level is different. I am a very private person with sex, I don't want to see others have it (especially people I know) and I don't want people to see me having sex. Since I have a home separate from the other two members of my chosen...

I am a member of a closed V, and recently we did an interesting exercise that brought forth all kinds of feelings, as well as huge steps forward. I wanted to share that experience here and end with a question for you. We each wrote a list of our desires for the family as a whole, for ourselves...

Hello! I'm new to poly and our chosen family came about very organically. None of us was looking, but it just happened. I simultaneously fell in love with a poly man (and he with me) through a budding friendship, and at the same time grew to deeply love his long-time female non-poly partner...

nevermind Nevermind, want to lurk a bit before posting an intro. :-)