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You sold your house? Yay! Congrats! Sorry about feeling bruised after testing. I hope you get results you need.

I'm glad you found it funny! ;) Well, if he used to cum with you for three years, it's probably not that you're doing something physically different. I am guessing it's emotional. It sounds like you two had a really bad fight, yelling and screaming on your part, to the point where he offered...

Okay. Here is your previous thread for those who haven't seen it. https://polyamory.com/threads/new-to-vee-poly.159496/ So basically, we know from your last thread that Jack and Michelle (as we called them) were romantically/sexually interested in each other, but so far had only hugged and...

Have you gotten therapy for your trauma? So many women are trained to put other's needs first, always. Heck, a lot of men are too. This is fine if you are taking care of children or the ill or helpless elderly, but not super great if you are dealing with your equals. You start to feel used. You...

I have friends who work or have worked as "PCAs," personal care assistants, who are strong and trained to lift and help people in wheelchairs or with other capabilities. Is that not a possibility for you guys? Thanks for sharing what you're dealing with. There are so many different needs. I had...

I don't understand this part I bolded. She is 9 years, not a baby. What do you mean, "easies some things" in referring to babyhood? Also, we don't know if the daughter is in elementary school daily, or a special school part time, or what.

Hi, As a mod, I added more info to your thread title. Our guidelines request you make your topic clear, rather than just asking for help. https://polyamory.com/threads/user-guidelines.79465/ I also look forward to more information about your situation. How long has your husband been dating...

I just want to point out that the Multiamory podcast is in our resource list in the Golden Nuggets section.

Hi greenapple, I just wanted to point out to you and others that Ryan Minti has been banned for spamming and trolling. He seems to have had a "manosphere" or "incel" agenda he wanted to push. I encourage everyone who sees this thread to not be concerned with his irrelevant POV. It had nothing...

She could be being "kind," or she might be trying to push Steve away. She's seeming less and less invested in the relationship, and has paved the way strongly for this very young woman to replace her in Steve's bed and heart. If I were Steve, I'd ask Emma to be brutally honest and ask her what...

This does sound unfair, and is causing you "envy." You get stuck home doing childcare while hubs is out living the life of a free and single man. I would hate that too. My ex husband did that when we had three children and opened our relationship. I was pretty busy with the kids (one of whom...

I've seen you use the acronym "SMP" twice in 24 hours, on your first day here. As far as I can tell, you are referring to the "sexual marketplace." You also mention becoming a "high value" partner, another term used in the "incel/red pill/manosphere" universe. These terms and this outlook are...

I thought you said he just had an 8-year old from a previous relationship, who is with you part time. Are there more kids in the mix? I hear that you may want something more spontaneous, but many people prefer more of a schedule. You can always change the schedule, either temporarily, if...

I agree with you. It's been four months. The mark of being a successful polyamorist is not just to have more than one lover yourself, but to get okay with your partners having more than one lover. It can definitely be a challenge, no doubt about it, but it must be done. I still struggle each...

Oh, I see. I agree with Tinwen that thinking of Jack as your "other half," while he loves and is attracted to Michelle is something to look at and maybe rethink. Thinking of a couple as two halves of a whole, while also having intense loving relationships with others seems kind of contradictory...

Hi and welcome. This is a board for polyamory, which means having multiple loving romantic relationships. It's under the same umbrella as sharing group sex, that is, they are both ethical non-monogamy, but casual group sex, with "no saying I love you," is obviously the opposite of polyamory...

I am not sure what OH means in your posts. It seems to mean your husband, "Jack," is that right? So, a "boundary" you set was in response to Jack coming into your bed after having had sex with Michelle. That made you angry, I gather. Maybe jealous. You then said if he has sex with her in the...

Hi and welcome to polyamory.com. You will get feedback here from others who are each speaking from their own pov, coming from their experiences, personalities, needs and desires. Take what works and leave the rest. This is your first foray into dating independently. Congrats on taking that...

To reduce confusion, let's call your husband Jack and your friend Chloe. So did Chloe move into your house that you share with Jack? Is there space, physical and emotional, for everyone, Chloe and her kids? Do the kids all get along? What are their ages? Do they know there is a romantic love...