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Okay. Since there is no attraction between you and your meta, that piece of advice is irrelevant. But so many new couples come here thinking triads ARE what polyamory IS. So I think it's good to put it on the list. It's a major assumption. What would your best piece of advice be, given that you...

https://polyamory.com/threads/user-guidelines.79465/ Rule #15. You must be 18 or older to be on this site. :)

Rather than reinvent the wheel, why don't you take time to search the term triad and find out all the pitfalls of basing your desire for polyamory on the FMF triad so popular with men? (There is so much porn based on one man/two women fucking, and so many men jack off to this and decide this...

Polyamory does not equal group sex.

Well, I for one am confused at how this whole experiment has gotten to this point-- kind of a stalemate. Maybe lostinlove is being more open about details and the deep real issues going on in DMs, with dinged and others? If so, I don't know how anyone on this thread can offer any pertinent...

I just reread your other thread and this one. It seems like Carrie and Leo have only been dating since February, or maybe a bit earlier. It's now May 1. That is just barely 4 months, if I have the timing right. I just can't see what kind of future a 40-year old woman with two children has with a...

I see that you are new to polyamory and trying to accommodate for your husband exploring his bi side. That's fine and admirable. However, you are doing much too much. Letting his new bf move in with you, because his prior housing ended, or maybe he's got financial issues, is kind, but not...

Back when I was actively dating, I had the idea I could offer "sexual healing" (to quote the title of an old song), but I never believed it would be ethical to "heal" or "teach" some married/seriously-monogamously-partnered dude to make him a "better man" to send back to his wife. I think any...

I, and many, if not most, polyamorous people refuse to date someone who is cheating on another partner or partners. Period. One of the things that defines ethical non-monogamy is openness, honesty and transparency around who all you are dating. If I were dating someone, X, and I found out their...

It's not clear what your gender is.

You started talking to your husband in January and you're already married? That is very fast. So you're bisexual. What does that have to do with your new husband's polyamory? What do you mean "We stayed 300 miles away"? Are you not living together? He has a woman in mind in a different...

I am not sure if this was the very first time you came up against this. But I get the feeling he's been badgering you to try this threesome thing for a while, and you finally gave in under duress, just to shut him up. We call that being coerced. Why? It sounds like it was nothing but disgusting...

There was no need to let a stranger fondle your leg up to your genitalia. You could have stopped him the second he even got near to your skin. Fuck that shit. You are allowed to have limits. Respect yourself and protect your own boundaries. And break up with this man, or any person, who tries...

Well, being polyamorous just means loving more than one. So, loving two would be a feeling: I feel love for A, I feel love for B. Now, practicing polyamory involves tons of choices, not just feelings. As in any romantic relationship, sometimes "love is not enough."

The "What's Easier" article is shorter and to the point. The "Someone called you a unicorn" article is pretty long and takes a good block of time to read. I understand you're doing a lot of reading for school, so "studying" polyamory right now is one more burden. haha. But if you're going to...

In the general public, most people are monogamous, at least outwardly. So if they are bi, and coupled up with a man, they are not likely to be "sleeping with" a woman at all. They are mono, so they only love and have sex with one other person. But if your partner is bi and polyamorous, or...

No worries. Venting helps a lot! I hope the articles I shared weren't too redundant. I guess my point is that each dyad is its own individual thing. Everyone has their own lives to lead, and so the parameters will be different. You just don't have the same amount of time. I guess you're...

You can read around this forum about how to handle the dynamics of triads. They are complicated. Do a search for terms like triad, unicorn, threesomes... In a triad there are several relationships or dyads. Let's call your nesting partner Dallas, and your LDR partner Cheyenne. The dyads are...

Congrats! I hope labor goes well, and new motherhood is everything you hope for. 🩷