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  1. Erosa

    New to a mono/poly relationship

    Stars, The more I hear, the more I just shake my head. I have to say I agree with the others. This guy honestly doesn't sound like he's poly. He sounds like he's an emotional predator who uses manipulation to get women to give him sexual and emotional power over them. If I were you I would...
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    confused

    :eek::eek::eek: DEAL BREAKER!!!! DEAL BREAKER!!!! Let me tell you from personal experiance that if there's even the most faint suspicion that your new partner is even part pedofile you should RUN the oposite direction. :eek:
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    communication assistance

    This sounds like a hard place to be. I think your concerns are valid, but you have to ask yourself: what can you really do? If you refuse to let your wife see him, then you will be right back with the problem you started with. At least, it seems that way to me. I sincerely hope that everything...
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    Well my last lover had eyes that were almost identical to that. So I see your avatar and go...

    Well my last lover had eyes that were almost identical to that. So I see your avatar and go OMG!! MICHAEL! LOL. But... it's you, not him. So... Oh well. ROFL. But it does give me happy memories. :D Our quad... so... Triad is a threesome? A quad is... a foursome? So do you have a...
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    Poetry / Poems

    [Poem] Soft Touches Soft moments, Soft wonder, Soft pressing at your mind. Do you ever wonder if I'm real, Ever think of if I'm yours? Soft whispers, Soft answers, Soft knocking at your heart. Do you still believe in my love, Like I believe in yours? Soft motions, Soft touches, Soft tickles...
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    Word Association Game!

    Amanda!!
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    Unicorns & Unicorn Hunters - Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Thank you everyone! :) This has really helped me learn. I appriciate it.
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    My writings

    *applause* Me likes!!!
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    Oh good heavens! *feels heart flutter* There is nothing I love more than a puzzle onion!!! :D...

    Oh good heavens! *feels heart flutter* There is nothing I love more than a puzzle onion!!! :D You seem to have quite the active voccabulary. Are you the victim of super abundant intellegence, homeschooling, or reading addiction?? ROFL! Would you be more comfortable talking in PM...
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    Word Association Game!

    Cancer
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    LOL. Well glad my poking about did not offend. One of my obsessive complusions is seeking...

    LOL. Well glad my poking about did not offend. One of my obsessive complusions is seeking out and analyzing all unique screen names. I'm finding more and more that the interesting ones often house interesting people and give genuine clues to their being. The boring ones (like...
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    Word Association Game!

    vampire
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    confused

    Being told you're not someone's 'body type' can be painful. But it's better to have him tell you the truth than make up some excuse about 'it's not you it's me...' and leave you forever feeling like you somehow made a mistake. It does seem highly suspicious that he was interested, then NOT...
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    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    Raising Children In Poly Families? I would like to hear how those of you who practice poly and also have children have raised your kids in this format. At some point in my life, I hope to have children of my own, or to be in a relationship where my partners have children. But I would like to...
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    Well I joined becuase I am interested in finding a family that I can be part of. It's...

    Well I joined becuase I am interested in finding a family that I can be part of. It's complicated to explain but suffice it to say that my career is not likely to be condusive to successful long term mono relationships. 0_0 Wow it does sound like you are in a whole new world for poly. LOL. I...
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    Fullness-emotional, physical-how our relationships relate to our eating habits.

    Well from what I understand, food constumption is directly related to body chemestry. For many people, a happy relationship released massive amounts of dopamine and seratonin into the brain producing a feeling of well being and 'rose colored glasses'. Depending on what people psychologically...
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    I am doing well! :) Oh... and to reply to my message on the profile you have to either go to...

    I am doing well! :) Oh... and to reply to my message on the profile you have to either go to my profile or click 'view conversation' and reply in the box there. LOL. I like your avatar too btw. :) What promted you to join this site if I may ask? :) I'm off to go work out... something...
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    LOL! HI! Just got done reading your post in the 'swinging' thread. Solid opinions are a good...

    LOL! HI! Just got done reading your post in the 'swinging' thread. Solid opinions are a good thing btw. :-D And I wanted to say that your avatar is mezmorizing me... *stares at it...* LOL. It reminds me of the eyes of someone I love very much. And adds a certain mystisque to your online...
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    Where to start?

    I think, based on what I've read, that you and your lover need to ask each other point blank: "What do YOU want to gain out of a poly relationship?" If all he desires is the sexual gratification of seeing you with another woman, then I don't think poly is really for you and him. Though I'm...
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    Twice Burned

    Second Flame Thank you for all the comments and support. Here is the second part of the tale. LOL (Part 2) Having extracated myself from the situation with Becky and Bill, I firmly resolved not to let myself be so taken advantage of again. I'd learned two good rules; 1) Verify...
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