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    Wedding ceremony and handfasting ceremony

    Evie, getting married is very much part of me getting to live here in the States full time. Without it I would have to return to Canada six months a year and that would just suck. We have been doing the go back and forth things for years now, as I had work and family committments in Canada...
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    Wedding ceremony and handfasting ceremony

    Thanks for the ideas... I am so new to this that I am not even sure what a Poly V looks like. I knew that my partner B was poly when we started dating 7 years ago. I am okay with it, but I have no interest in dating another guy. Kay moved in a year or so ago, but as far as I can tell she...
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    Wedding ceremony and handfasting ceremony

    My metamour Kay wants to have her handfasting ceremony with our hinge B on the same day as my wedding, possibly as part of the same ceremony. I have already stated that she should have her own day (and so should I). That did not go over well and I am under some pressure to change my mind. We...
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    Starting to live with my partner and metamour - advice?

    I come from a large family here in Canada. I have six brothers and sisters, one of which lives with me now. My brother wouldn't be able to handle the cost of the house alone. The house here is "home base" where everyone comes to stay when visiting my mother who lives in a care home just down...
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    Starting to live with my partner and metamour - advice?

    Thank you! There are so many things you mentioned that we haven't even thought of yet. B has a beautiful house on the Puget Sound.... so for the foreseeable future I cannot see us getting a different place with more space. My home in Canada is also the home of my brother so I am not at...
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    Getting started in a Poly family

    Thank you for the welcome! I did order the book More than 2.... I am a reader and absorb information best that way. I do get along with my metamours, some better than others.... some I am a Mom to (she calls me Mom even though there is only 10 years between us) .... some I am sister to...
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    Starting to live with my partner and metamour - advice?

    I do have my own home, however it is too far away from B's house to be practical, and right now the border has been closed for a year. Kay came to live with us when she was in a housing crisis. She is on a disability pension and I don't think it would ever stretch to cover an independent home...
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    Starting to live with my partner and metamour - advice?

    Yes, the house is his ( I will call him B) . He also has a condo about an hours drive away, we refer to that as the man cave.... if he wants time away from female energy he goes there for a couple of days. He arranges time with some of his other friends at the condo. How big will the harem...
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    Starting to live with my partner and metamour - advice?

    I have been with my partner for 7 years in a mostly LDR and now I am able to go and live full time with him starting in the next few weeks. We are getting married after Covid (so my family from Canada can come down for the wedding). He has another partner, Kay, that moved in to the family...
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    Getting started in a Poly family

    I have been with my partner in a LDR for seven years. Now that I am retired I can spend more time with him and we do intend to marry. I can move from Canada to be with him in the US! He has always had other kink partners and it was understood from the beginning of our relationship that he very...
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