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  1. FlameKat

    sifting through the ashes

    Venting/ranting I have come to the conclusion that yes I should send my letter, and seperately, however, I thinkit would be best if our letters are sent close together so I am going to wait to respond until WW has written his. That said, I am antsy about leaving it for more than a few days. I...
  2. FlameKat

    sifting through the ashes

    Hey LR - Sorry I am still figuring out how to put our intro threads into our signatures so people can go back and have a quick read. My thread is "Not sure where to go from here" and WW's is "Loving and Understanding..." WW is VERY hurt by the fact that T is putting effort into communicating...
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    This is a lot of work. (TP's story, when she feels like updating)

    Will it be a temporary change or a long-term change? Hugs TP - you guys are STRONG, you'll be just fine :D
  4. FlameKat

    sifting through the ashes

    Hey nycindie It's not that WW wants communication - it's the opposite. WW is not ready to have T back yet. I am. WW wants to speak his mind and get the anger out (that he didn't get out 3-4 months ago when all this blew up)... I do fear that T would react by leaving for good. Hpwever - it also...
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    Word Association Game!

    soup
  6. FlameKat

    sifting through the ashes

    My turn again.... So this last week, along with all the other drama, T popped his head up on MSN said one word (my name) and disappeared again... This ripped the scabs from my barely starting to heal heart and left me raw and bleeding again (in my already stressed situation - I am not quite as...
  7. FlameKat

    BC Reference Case on Polygamy and Group Marriages

    Has there been any update in the case? Has it been finalised?
  8. FlameKat

    Word Association Game!

    compassion
  9. FlameKat

    Somegeezer's Blog Of Life

    Hugs SG... Hugs
  10. FlameKat

    Moving from adultery to polyamory - help!

    I believe that NeonKaos was referring to your husband's change of heart/mind/stand on the situation as being "too easy." (Correct me if I'm wrong please, NK.) I would be wary myself. Vincent has hung on and clung tight to these particular women (by your words/description). It does seem a little...
  11. FlameKat

    Positive Role Models for Monos

    I will be on a flying visit (literally :p), coming in for a conference... not sure how long it will go for - last one I flew in at 9am... left that day at 5pm... but I would love to meet up. I'll message you when I have firmer dates and times :D
  12. FlameKat

    Word Association Game!

    arachnophobia :p (wasn't correcting spelling - am aware that acrophobia is a fear of heights) - the spelling did trigger my word though :p
  13. FlameKat

    Positive Role Models for Monos

    I may have to look you up and say g'day when you get here :D - I'll be down Brissy way in February :D
  14. FlameKat

    Word Association Game!

    hair *don't ask me why - i saw the word mayonnaise and immediately had a picture of someone shampooing with the stuff... is it used to get bad smells out of hair??* LOL sometimes my brain has mondo random connections
  15. FlameKat

    Clearing the head

    Hey SG... Yaaay for the computer building :D Seriously thouhg - I do still feel you need to get out in the fresh air, and do something either completely different and new ... or have you busked? did you find it enjoyable? Unusual time of year I know - but maybe wandering through the park...
  16. FlameKat

    Discussion on Forum Sociology and Interpersonal Dynamics

    I asked for personal opinion and experiences on what price is too high to pay to keep their personal integrity - not their personal opinions of whether or not they felt I might lie, be deceitful or other be delicate or fragile, etc., and so forth. You do not know me, therefore can have no...
  17. FlameKat

    Word Association Game!

    knife
  18. FlameKat

    Poly Vignettes: Sharing Success & Happiness

    *Bigtime smiley faces* Congrats to you both, and to the rest of your gang :D Love and hugs to you both (cos you need so much more :P) LOL *pulling my head back in again*
  19. FlameKat

    Discussion on Forum Sociology and Interpersonal Dynamics

    :D I didn't mention it, because I felt it obvious that it was exactly the point being put forward. However, WHAT NEONKAOS SAID, with bells on, even. :D
  20. FlameKat

    Discussion on Forum Sociology and Interpersonal Dynamics

    If someone has been offended by what you have said, then you were being offensive to that person. It is not your responsibility to 'take the blame' for 'being offensive.' Acknowledging that perhaps what you said had caused someone to feel offended is different. And actually, looking back over...
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