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Hugs to you, unwitty. I know how hard it is to share your private posts, especially about this. WELL DONE. Good work. I look forward to hearing how you move forward.

WhatamIdoing has a thread that explains Bill was fine with her swinging and she should go for it. PolyAMORY was not a part of their original agreement.

You're welcome SG :D Purely selfish motives though :D I get stuck myself :p

I am coming over here from SomeGeezer's blog... He's having a problem being able to get out of his current 'rut' and - it appears - going in circles in his head... I figured it might be an idea to do something completely new and out of character to get his juices flowing again... (obviously...

@Magdlyn I have looked too... I found it very useful. And yes - where are my manners? Thank you for posting the link.

Eeeesh SG!! Get out of the house already... go for a walk in the park... got a camera? how about one on your phone? go take some snapsots of trees covered in snow... get creative with it... just do SOMETHING... post them up here :D we'd all love a look... in fact maybe we could start a thread...

I've hesitated jumping in on this thread as I come in right at the other end of the scale... I wouldn't even fit in the featherweight category :p I am borderline healthy for my height.. 161cm and approx.. 46k at last weigh (I think)... I tend not to weigh myself as I get depressed that I *HAVE*...

Welcome :D

Hugs SG ....Breathe.... This will be hard... but put it aside for a bit... lose yourself in some music... or maybe go do something completely new and preferably physical (go bungee jumping or something) something that will force your mind away from dwelling... try to come back to it refreshed...

This is the post with the yes/no questions I was referring to...

This. I have been through a monogamous marriage (15yrs)...(it was hell - not because it was monogamous but because the husband WAS a cheating bastard who couldn't keep it in his pants (as well as abusive), even when I KNEW he was cheating, he would still lie about it and try to hide it, even...

Olderwoman, it would help me more if you would simply answer the questions I stated very simply in my response, rather than going off on the tangent that I am obviously having difficulty understanding. Yes/No would have worked a hell of a lot better. Your apology is mostly meaningless, given...

Thanks for posting the article - very enlightening read...

This. Way more respect, and has done the hard work, and more. Also, a guy that "can be great" is nowhere near as good as a guy that is great, all the time. From what you have written, Sourel, you are a great woman who deserves a partner who respects that, every second of every day. At the very...

In my eyes... you're doing just fine. Keep communicating - you sound like you are doing better than I did in that department :D keep it up. Let her talk, really let her... For me as well, when I came across this site and started reading - it was like "Why - hello - there I am" :D My partner...

Lol - haircut - join the club :P Intro - whatever you like and you did just fine :D Though if you want responses pertinent to yourself (as opposed to generalised) you may want to provide a snippet more background :D Welcome.

@Olderwoman So am I now correct in what I think you are saying? You are saying that you would only apologise if: The offense was intentional (in other words; that 'in the moment' you meant to be offensive), but you then regretted it later. AND, that you would also only apologise if you agreed...

I have to say your posts are rather magical :p not to mention beautiful in a very soul opening way. can I have a copy of your book too? :p

LMAO! That is awesome. :D I remember the version I first read of the Arthurian legend actually had Guinevere, Lancelot and Arthur in a poly-style configuration. Arthur deferred to Guinevere's love and need for Lancelot, though she continued to sleep with and, I assume, have relations with...

REDPEPPER!! *mock shock* YOU don't know who G'n'R are? oh.... you are missing out :D *teasing* @Mono - love the band, enjoy Velvet Revolver too... LOL now back to awesome Mono type people as role models... I can't remember if I already 'voted' but Mono and Indigo (by default I know :p)...