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  1. Rarechild

    goodbye and all the best

    on it, Dakid. Sorry for the wait. I'll find out what we can do besides banning you.
  2. Rarechild

    Illness, polyamory, and changing too fast

    Feeling you, Merry. Be brave.
  3. Rarechild

    Some Things Some People Need To Hear

    How about... What suggestions would you like engaged that have not been? What do you suggest as a remedy to the issues highlighted? I think anyone who has followed this thread- Hi Joreth- knows how all involved feel about the various issues raised. I would like to remind everyone that this...
  4. Rarechild

    The Dispersed Polyamorous Group

    I agree with II- I would get comfortable with what you're talking about. What I read of your blog seems more like a storyline than anything. I would recommend not approaching polyamory seeking to create any system for it other than your own, (but of course, the system and the book have already...
  5. Rarechild

    Some Things Some People Need To Hear

    Really, the only thing Joreth got points for- (not banned, first time she ever got points) is for saying "fuck you". That happened to fall under a category. It was not written for this instance. We have no "you said fuck you" category. It falls under unnecessary hostile behavior. That being...
  6. Rarechild

    The Rare Life

    In Kalamazoo, we've been lucky enough to have some sunshine the last few days, and the snow has receded for a minute again. We have had a good supply of firewood this year given to us by various folks, and so many times as I read through posts on here I am stoking the flames. I am a total...
  7. Rarechild

    Our feature in newspaper

    :) That's cool, Jools. Nice to see your faces. That was decent article though I do have some comments on the quality of the writing.(English weenie comments- I will keep them to myself:) ) Good quotes. Thanks for sharing this. -R
  8. Rarechild

    in agony please help

    Thanks for fessing up, dakid, instead of what would have been easiest-- deleting posts and hoping no one noticed. I appreciate your honesty and your apology. I don't have any concrete thoughts on your situation, but keep working through it. I hope your time away from him will allow you...
  9. Rarechild

    I'm so stupid....

    I just thank god got free of a sexual drought in my relationship with my husband so I feel you. We also came from a place of being sexually unsatisfied when we started talking about other relationships. It turned out to be the lack of openness that was blocking our sexual intimacy. We had to...
  10. Rarechild

    I'm so stupid....

    The whole post was great, and it helped me. Thank you, LR.
  11. Rarechild

    I have been outed!!

    It seems like your mom was saying she already knows that you're poly. Could this be the case?
  12. Rarechild

    The Rare Life

    After some time to get my heart in order I will try to make this brief, as I have plans to hole up in the studio today on my second snow-day from classes. First of all thanks to everyone who inquired privately as to what was going on and offered help and support. Catfish and I are fine. We...
  13. Rarechild

    Link Posting

    I believe this is what you are referring to- I'm sorry you misunderstood. I was merely linking you to the location of the rule I was enforcing, and welcoming input. I did not mean to imply that my prior warning was void because you disagreed with it. It's really nothing personal, and I've...
  14. Rarechild

    Thanks for your help, Oliver.

    Thanks for your help, Oliver.
  15. Rarechild

    Link Posting

    No intention to slap anyone, just doing my job here as respectfully as I can with regard to the rules that are in place.
  16. Rarechild

    Link Posting

    Like I said in my PM to you, you are welcome to suggest companies who sell products you recommend. However, you are not welcome to post commercial links. If you give the name of the company, people can find them easily by searching for them. Macbeth did the right thing not posting a link to a...
  17. Rarechild

    "Domestic Disturbances"

    Oh, I see. I retract my confusion.
  18. Rarechild

    "Domestic Disturbances"

    I'm sorry- "continuing advance", "attack", "last bastion"? Are poly people waging a war against monogamy in Europe? If this is your view, then you have validated the argument in this article- that polyamory is a threat to people and their families. As far as I know, monogamy is the norm...
  19. Rarechild

    "Domestic Disturbances"

    Wow, whoever wrote this is too far gone to be saved. How hateful. It's sad that people looking for guidance from this publication are fed hatred and fear. I feel like I've been assaulted.
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