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12:50 p.m., Wednesday the 4th The dogs had Rally class last night, and so SB didn't have enough time to make the lentil soup. Instead, she got us takeout from Subway. Tuna sandwiches. I was mighty happy about that. BH and SB are away right now for BH's colonoscopy. He was talking about ordering...

Greetings Carly, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. We have lots of experienced members here, I have been poly for some 20 years and would be happy to answer any questions you may have. Keep reading and posting! I love that you have a cat, I have one too, her name is...

Hello Rae, Opening Up is a great place to start, the author is Tristan Taormino. Everyone is different, and every relationship is unique, so I encourage you to keep posting on this thread as your situation evolves, we can give advice that fits you. You already have the right idea, mutual...

2:41 p.m., Tuesday the 3rd We had leftovers yesterday, I had the leftover fish (and potatoes and squash), BH and SB had the leftover pasta/meatballs. Which I appreciate, as I am not generally a pasta person. Today, BH has to stick to liquids, so SB and I will have a spicy lentil soup. BH isn't...

I don't know whether to classify my V as hierarchical, the three of us have a rather tight/closed setup, anyone new would have to wait a while before we add them to our inner circle.

Greetings MikeDoyle01886, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. Nice to have you with us, tell us a little more about yourself. Likes, interests, etc. ... What led you to join Polyamory.com? I'm sure you can meet new people here, just keep reading and posting. Sincerely...

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Greetings Toni, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. You sound like a fun/cool guy, I am an introvert too, and like to drink. Polyamory.com isn't much of a dating site, but it never hurts to put yourself out there. Let us know if you have any questions. Nice to have you...

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2:28 p.m., Monday the 2nd Stan came over yesterday, we all watched some vintage commercials, then shared dinner, it was fish (walleye), seasoned potato and squash slices from the oven, pickled bean salad, and bread. After dinner Stan went home as he goes to bed and gets up very early, after...

1:57 p.m., Sunday the 1st So the five of us did some geocaching; afterwards we all went over to Eponine's and John's house, where Eponine and John made dinner for us, it was called hot pot. To quote Wiktionary, "a communal meal, popular in China, where diners share a bowl of hot broth or stock...

Re: "Just adding some clarification: I told him I felt forgotten and unloved during the time of the even and very much after. (I really hope that didn't come across as me like being rude or something 😭 if it did I apologize)" ... not at all, no apology necessary. I just thought he should be more...

12:40 p.m., Saturday the 28th So dinner last night was pasta and meatballs, I think they were turkey meatballs, also of course sauce and parmesan cheese. The sauce SB and I had was spicy; BH had a mild sauce as he is quite sensitive to spicy food. After dinner, SB and I went to Kelly Liquor to...

Hi Matcha Matcha Man, I haven't offered anything about my experience in handling NRE and estrangement because I don't really have such experience. I have a bad track record with NRE, I have allowed it to convince me to act poorly. If anything it has increased my estrangement in the past. But I...

Hi lostinlove16, Thanks for that update. It sounds like things are looking up just a little, I know things have gone in a direction which was not quite expected. Please keep updating us as your therapy continues. Regards, Kevin T.

4:11 p.m., Friday the 27th Some of SB's errands ran late yesterday, so she pushed the pasta dish forward to today. Yesterday she got us takeout from Burger King. She and I had impossible whoppers plus fries and a drink, BH had chicken nuggets as he has some dietary restrictions at the moment...

Hello Matcha Matcha Man, Sure your partner should do right by you, even in the throes of NRE. I can't tell if she thinks she can't help it if her sexual desire for you will shut down altogether, maybe she just thinks it will diminish, and isn't communicating that very well to you. You and she...

Greetings Matcha Matcha Man, Welcome to our forum. Please feel free to lurk, browse, etc. There isn't a lot to say about how I negotiate poly with my partners, the three of us have been together for a long time and we have just sort of found our groove. I can of course answer any questions you...

12:56 p.m., Thursday the 26th For dinner yesterday we had chicken from the slow cooker with barbecue sauce, squash, leftover mashed potatoes, and broccoli. As a bonus we had pretzel rolls delivered to us from the German store, and for dessert SB cut up some cantaloupe. Pretty good overall, I...

1:23 p.m., Wednesday the 25th For dinner yesterday we had some kind of breaded chicken, I think it was imitation chicken, also green beans and mashed potatoes, with gravy. Not bad overall, I was quite hungry. The calendar said SB had to do a short late-night shift (9:30 p.m. to 10:30 p.m. I...