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Just adding my echo to what Tonberry and Redpepper have said. Personally, I have this same kink in a big way. But in my mind, polyamory only would start if this kink became something more serious between your wife and her sex partner. That's me talking only; there is considerable difference...

Wish you two lived in Homer, this is exactly what I need to find locally. It's starting to happen actually, but once my conversations start touching on poly stuff, I feel like I'm speaking an alien language to most friends. Ah well, time will do its magic soon enough. Anotherbo :)

I have no suggestions for de-sensitivation techniques that don't involve copious use of vibrators. But maybe some of this will help: You two have only been sexually involved with C for about 2 months, right? And this is your first poly experience during a 20+ year monogamous marriage? This...

Ariakas: Derby: Over the course of this thread, it has become clear to me that some of you are indeed not masturbating correctly, and thus think it isn't sex. It has also become clear that I myself have not been having sex with a partner correctly, and thus do not adequately differentiate...

Now that we know it was a joke... its pretty fucking funny! Anotherbo :D

Great news, I'm glad things are looking up! Anotherbo :D

If Nora does start lurking here, she might be shocked at how negative our responses have been towards her and Nick. If so, I hope she can recognize that up until now, we've only heard one side of the story, and some of us (me included) may have rushed to judgement in the name of being...

I'm going with sex, and sometimes quite enjoyable sex. How bout phone sex, internet sex etc? Sex, or not sex? Anotherbo :)

Hooray! Anotherbo :D

I'm so sorry you're going through so much pain right now, Dazed. It's such a miserable irony that she is dumping you. I remember you posting earlier in this thread, something about having accepted that she is a spoiled teenager at heart, and loving her anyhow. Not that it can help with the...

@Formerunicorn: I enjoyed our talk so much the other day, as well as the hugs. But especially your insight and vibrancy! Your comment about acceptance has particularly stayed with me. Although I was pretty matter-of-fact about it at the time, the more I've thought about it, the more I...

Sounds very hot to me, and very scary. Anyhow, hi there! And thanks for sharing. It'll be interesting to see how the current situation shakes out.

A lot of people (including me) have a need for a space of their own. A place to feel safe and comfortable. A place to spend quality time with just yourself when needed. Wasn't this your quote RP? "You are your own primary." Sounds like you need some time with the primary that is yourself...

This is a few days late, but your post about Tonberry's insights into your situation really helped me understand. It makes so much sense now, you couldn't be sure you really owned your own sexuality, really felt whole, if you never left the safe zone of your relationship with DW. I suppose it...

Glad you're getting some alone time RP, even if its measured in minutes. ;) Anyhow, I mostly just wanted to send more hugs and positive energy. Anotherbo :)

I'm so glad you were in the mood for some comic relief! Anotherbo :D

Seems like a positive sign that you're starting to stand up for some boundaries for yourself. Now that you've reached that healthier place, have you considered putting a hit out on him? I'd guess you'd be too upset to have your wife assassinated as well, but still, might be for the best...

As someone who has suffered disabling depression on-and-off (mostly on) for my entire life, I'd like to share what I know about my own depression. When I am deeply depressed, there is really no point trying to do anything about it except relax, wait it out, and look for those moments when I am...

I'm a very new member here, and the last thing I would want to do (or be able to do ;) ) is marginalize anybody. And I'm hoping to say the following without getting into a brawl. Ceoli: On some of your earlier posts in this thread, the bitter and attacking tone (as it seemed to me) made it...

Cool Cool, I've been enjoying reading your thread a lot, and I'm glad my comments are welcome. I've also been finding people I'm interested in lately, and feeling that they are interested in me. I've been a bit manic lately, so its been hard to just let things happen naturally and not try to...