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Thanks for sharing this Alan, very interesting.

Hi Kingston I'm a Scorpio too and for the sake of simplicity I'll say I am mono with a poly partner. That is how we started out anyway. While it is still true in practice I feel that I have outgrown that description. I prefer now to say that we have an open relationship and my partner has...

Oh and one more thing. Do you mind if I don't keep calling you Lost Rane. I think names are really important. I called myself Sage because Sage is a useful herb and Sages are wise. Every time I type "Lost Rane" I feel a sadness in my heart, and worse it could become a self-fulfilling...

Hi Lost Rane Go here http://whitehottruth.com You're right your need to re-focus your mind and find out what makes you rock. Danielle LaPorte is an expert at this and if you subscribe to her blog you can download an Authentic Dream Worksheet for free. Go for it, I think you need a life...

Hi LostRane I hope putting up this post helped you work through your feelings a bit and I'm glad Draco is trying to be more open to you. Can I ask, how is your life apart from the relationship stuff? How are your friendships, your passions, your job? When we are in an open relationship I...

Hi Flower It sounds as if you handled this situation really sensibly. This is not something that you will be able to come to terms with quickly. It's a process and it's like learning a whole new way of being. I would recommend that you check out my blog www.polyamorouspeople.com. Look back at...

Gorgeous Sunday. Amazing country where winter has people still out in shorts and tee-shirts. Sailed up the Brisbane river on a City Cat. Had a big Latte, then walked and rode the city cycles back down the river. We felt blessed that we live in such a beautiful city and I felt like I've come a...

How much weight have you lost NYCindie? I've just had my first weigh at ww and have dropped 1.4 Kgs ( over 3lb), in my first week. :-) very pleased.

KT Weight watchers isn't expensive. It's about $13 per week and I find I'm probably saving nearly that because I'm eating less and have cut out junk. Take away the stuff you had at the movies and you've probably paid for a weeks membership. It's also an investment in you, something you would be...

Just read in random chat that you're in a shitty space. ((big hugs)) Remember that you will still be grieving for the relationship with Sour Girl, and grief is a process. Like me, you have probably used alcohol in the past to take the edge off painful feelings. If it's any help at all, I've...

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Your bf sounds monoamorous. I totally agree with Redpepper. I experience that with my poly partner. He loves someone else as well as me, and yet I feel more loved than I ever have in my life. Having said that, I still get your bf's words flashing into my head from time to time. They don't come...

Hi Ivy I don't think polyamory should be used to filled voids. Just as with anyone seeking a relationship you have to be happy with yourself first and then adding someone into that is fantastic. You said you're feeling lonely and yet you sound as if you have heaps of people in your life. Your...

KT, I really think it would serve you to look at your eating as a form of a addiction that is part of your relationship issues. Over-eating is a form of comfort and unless we stop it we won't look at the reasons behind it. All that happens is that we maintain an unhealthy, unattractive weight...

Hi LostRane Well guess what? I have been in a poly/mono relationship for three years. I blog about it on www.polyamorouspeople.com I've even written an e-book on it, and I still wonder if I'm cut out for it, so you aren't alone. Most of us, if not all of us on this journey have these thoughts...

Hi Sunset Dancer I don't really understand what your problem is? Are you saying that you are falling in love with this guy and that was something you didn't count on in an open marriage and you don't know how to deal with?

I hope you feel appreciated in this community RP. I for one appreciate you very much. I might not comment that much because I'm very busy at the moment and a little burnt out but I follow along with your life and really enjoy that you take the time to share it with us. Lack of appreciation says...

The work necessary to make your relationship successful is not all your responsibility. What is your partner doing to contribute? Yes you will need to work on jealousy but jealousy is also a symptom of things being out of order and it seems to me there are some fundamentals here that need...

Hi Ryan and welcome Check out my blog www.polyamorouspeople.com. There are lots of things on there that have helped monos figure out life with a poly partner. The first thing I would do if I was you would be to work out whether your partner will still be able to be the partner you want if she...

Hugs Ari You seem to be in a very different place over the break-up to Sour girl. Do you think it would serve any purpose for you to look at why the relationship didn't work anymore? Not in terms of getting back together necessarily (although it has happened before), but in understanding more...