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  1. Malfunktions

    I don't like my metamour :(

    I think you are justified in demanding an apology. She has been disrespectful of the sanctity of your M-A-R-R-I-A-G-E. You are married to him. IMHO, I think from what you've said here that the three of you might need to sit down and discuss why she's saying things like this, how she treats...
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    Maybe just getting this off my chest

    Mmmothra- you came to this forum to ask advice, did you not? I am sorry to have to define the word "advice" for you. Advice (opinion) Advice (also called exhortation) is a form of relating personal or institutional opinions, belief systems, values, recommendations or guidance about certain...
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    Malfunktioning and meandering

    Speed demon goes Instagram I got my first speeding ticket last week. I didn't argue or try to get out of it. I was coasting down a very rural hill that had a road link up to it at the bottom when I didn't notice the cop till too late. So, I'm waiting to sign my ticket while laughing and jokin...
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    Malfunktioning and meandering

    The Ginger Diaries Ugh, this heat is melting me from the inside out! So quite a fun-filled weekend this weekend. I had to re-arrange!:eek: I'm NEVER so busy that I have to do that. Late? Yes. Side-tracked? Yes. Waylayed by children? Most definitely. But so busy I had to re-arrange? RARELY...
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    Guys who shave... down there

    Crux and I do it religiously. I like the smoothness of it and he likes that it's less itchy, cooler, and just all around less hair. And yeah, how attractive is having to stop to pick a hair out of your mouth, really? It's kind of a mood killer for me. I prefer all my lovers to be bare.
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    High risk hpv test

    I, too, tested positive a while back. I had to have cells layered off and a keep procedure done. Not fun. But I'm all clear! :D The part that sucked the most was the four weeks we had to abstain from play. He got his attention, but my poor cookie was sidelined. :(
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    Hello

    Not in my case, I have been in a mono relationship for 6 years. I was non-mono before that. Recently I realized I was lost. I didn't know who I was anymore. Then I found this site and researched, researched and researched. Now I'm confident in claiming poly and Crux and I are way happy with who...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Crux's libido has kicked into over drive lately and I think it's because for the past two weeks I have been getting flirty, eyeballing and free stuff attentions lately and I feel like I'm starting to look better now! Baby weight is dropping slowly but I can't help but look at the amount in...
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    Hello

    Hey! And welcome to the site! You're very fortunate to know who you are early on! The forums here are excellent sources of informations and the people are great!!
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    Myers Briggs and polyamory.

    I just took the test again after taking it in school 7 years ago. I am not really surprised to find I tested as ESFP: But the Internet makes ESFP's out to be big attention seeking sluts! :( But like Mouse told me, the Internet likes to exaggerate a lot.
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    Hello and sorry

    I think a fair few of us have done the same. I had too. People here are very forgiving and you're apology is wonderful yet unnecessary :D Never be ashamed of whatyouwant and the mediums you took to find it. Hope you find what you are looking for.
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    Hello hello!

    First of all, welcome back East! We'll work hard on the community thing :) Are you the organized type? I could use that in my meet-ups ideas we discussed! LOL!!
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    Your most recent OKC messages. post em here!

    This was a first message: Huh? I'm polyamorous not over dramatic with poor soap opera acting.... I don't get it....
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    My Adventures in polyamory

    <3 :( but at the same time :)! Hopefully you are having better days!
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    Question about career choice or lack thereof

    You got er Pontiac. I try to exnay going to a movie two weeks in a row for numerous reasons. Reasons like, you get shushed if you talk in movies and people really don't wanna see you guys all over each other. I speak from experience ;) Next week, we are going to a clay cafe in town to make...
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    Question about career choice or lack thereof

    OP has designated the no kids talk on dates because I'd imagine its all they discuss at home. It's the same way here. Crux gets home and darn near gets a play by play of the days activities, LOL. And there's ALWAYS something to talk about. Especially if you're only reconnecting date wise on a...
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    Privacy & Disclosure Boundaries?

    Youarehere had excellent two cents. In for a penny in for a pound my gran always said. If you in a relationship then trusting the participants with information you must get of your chest is certainly the pound part of it. I think YAH he's a great idea to get them together and discuss this.
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    Question about career choice or lack thereof

    As a SAHM myself I can 100% relate to your situation. I started life as a non-monogamous being straight out of the gates and had tried for years off and on to be mono. Then one day Crux and I's life changed. Pregnant. We were mono for 6 years until I realized I didn't even know who I was...
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    wife has left me for her boyfriend

    I once wrote an entry about the logistics of duct tape and relationships. Here's the gist, using a canoe to represent the relationship: Canoe gets a crack. Do you: A) Layer on the duct tape, or B) Spend countless meticulous hours slathering the crack with polymer and fibreglass, then buffing...
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    Hello hello hello

    LOL, I as well. I'm sure tree are a lot of us who are! And welcome!!
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