A few people have directed me to publications like the book, "The Ethical Slut". It is an interesting and relatable read that I enjoyed. Taught me a lot and I'm still learning!
30 and lives with his mom? And she has a fiancé? Either he has maternal "take care of me" issues or he really can't let go.
I agree that you should not talk to him, or have any contact, if he can reel you in that easily. IMHO, it's those ones that end up leaving you feeling trapped in a...
It's really great eh? The waiting? :rolleyes:
I know how you feel only you have more guts than me, I'm still avoiding the "lets meet" Convo cause I'm scared ill either pee myself with excitement or make a total fool of myself cause I misjudged the timing...
Can't wait to read what happens next!!
Surprisingly, C is a Leo and after 6 years we are still as different today as we were then. I find it sometimes hard to connect to him on an intellectual basis because I like science in a "that's cool" kind of way, whereas he likes science in a "this makes that and here we find this and tiny...
I've come across ,multitudes of people who fit their signs but its the Leo's that boggle my mind. Leo's are just way too malleable I think.
I've met some that are soo closely represented by the sign and some that are nothing like it all!
Conflicted much?
So I'm going to the movies with a really cute girl she's way younger.. Like 20 and I'm 27, nervous? Not really cause we both stated we're just looking to hang out but we've been texting.
We have crazy amounts in common and she's quirky like me.
I don't have many friends...
Ha ha ha looking back it's hilarious!!!:D
Lol was having a very tired day yesterday! ;)
And I also find it funny that when I went back to the guys comment there were some quite colourful comments made. Muah ha ha ha
Currently? Or optimally?
Currently: stranger than fiction, the hangover, what the bleep do we know, the lovely boner ( I mean BONES) ;), the yes man
Optimally: secretary, savages, into the wild, the hurt locker, state of play
So, just doing a bit of research and playing around when I came across this, I was not happy. Mainly, because I am an Aquarian.
Honestly, I was curious whether astrological signs promote or detract from polyamory and when I found this my face turned about 50 shades of angry.
I'm not anything...
Nerd and the flake
C and I are very different. I'm a head in the sky kinda gal and he's very much grounded. He's a science nerd, prospector, has his own business, on the straight and narrow.
But we compliment each other well. I am always needing someone to focus me and ground my mind. Whereas...
Arguing semantics or just being a douchhe
He also thinks men are fully gay if they love or interact with another man.
He's <deleted> if you ask me. :rolleyes:
According to him, all women who choose to believe they are poly just have to be bi and for a man to share similar ideals he's gay...
Hmmm I'd like to be Sultan of my own poly-harem...
Intrigued...
Btw... This should be titled we are an above averaged sized poly-family looking to become a small village.
Ok it's 1:00pm the next day and he's not home yet but on his way. I calmed down just so you know. I went to sleep or fell into a wine coma, either way, and woke up this morning wondering WTH I was so stressed about.
Back to normal, well other than the tiniest feeling of butterflies but that's it.
^^This is true. 14 year old me was shown a penis for the first time and was mortified. Even pressed charges that didn't stuck. I realized oI over reacted. Now I look back and miss that innocence....NOT!
Hi! :) nice to meet you.
First up does "joe" talk about "Ann" while you two are spending time together? If so it's hard to distance yourself from the past when it's still in your present. Can you ask him not to mention her? Is he aware just how hurt you REALLY are?
Your situation, I can admit...
Late to the thread
It seems that she doesn't "see" you anymore. NRE can be powerful stuff and blinding. The fact that you are putting your foot down and making an effort not to be lost in the fog shows me that you are in it but is it with two feet or just the one?
It can be frustrating to...
So nervous I could toss cookies
So upon leaving the house for tonight's debacles, C hugs me, kisses me, and does our normal "oh your leaving" routine.
The only difference this time?
"Go! Flirt to your hearts content! Enjoy yourself! I love you."
Was easy to say.
....at the time.
No, I'm...
I think in terms of what's sexual and what's not its all in the delivery.
A look can be sexual, a passing graze of fingers can be sexual, even a slight body language movement can be sexual.
As SC mentioned tho, all of these thing can be neutral as well. Kissing and cuddling is a different...