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Onto happier subjects. I signed up to a Narcissistic support group on meetup. And I made an appointment on friday with the DV outreach services to get support towards managing appropriate boundaries, getting help with work and therapy and getting my financial life unentangled. I have spent the...

<3 Thank you Evie! Your vote of confidence is encouraging :D edited to add that later in this post is references to rape and childhood abuse this may be triggering for some, read at your own risk. The hardest part is that I sat down with my grandma and I said, you see the way she treats me...

Ok so what really brought the breaking point here was the fact the other day my mum looked me in the eye and said "I was her daughter and her property". Then she left for her 4 day trip and "jokingly" said, I need you to clean teh whole house since I replaced your computer charger/plug. (18$...

So my mom and dad are gone for from now until Monday. Today I sat inside the home I own for the first time on my own. I started imagining a future where I am here by myself one day. Even if that's 8 years from now. I was nice to roleplay this. Everything in the house is in my name and along...

My laptop has been out of commission recently, so just lurking from my phone. I can't post on their replies and such. Too much hassle haha. I am meeting up with...hmm I guess I'll give him a name sooner since this is number 3. :p Elias. One of my fav Wheel of Time chars. Haha. That'll work...

Just finished date number 2 with new guy. And Date number three planned for monday. :D I'm not sure I should call them dates, so much as hookups because although we're totally respectful of each other, and enjoy each others company. It really was all about the sex. This was fine with me...

I'm with you V, I don't even really like to share my room with 1 regularly. lol. Even my own dog sleeps in the living room more often than my bed. Nothing better than star fishing on a bed alone. :D This might be a big factor why i'm not married/ nesting partnered. LOL. As for the OP. I am...

First of all! Hey Evie! So good to hear from you!!! :D (hug) But ugh,sorry that it's under such circumstances. LDR's are super tough but much worse when you feel displaced, or priorities change and that person is making long term plans with someone else before you. : ( Priority shuffling...

So.. Things are getting interesting here! Ariel and I committed to once a week yoga on either saturdays or tuesdays. :D And she invited me back to hers, and we went to her she-cave, and cuddled and chatted about everything. I am really happy with this place this is at. It's very loving and...

I have in the past, and currently, I'm seeing a man who is outside my friends network and most likely wouldn't gel with my friends network. I see him separately to all my other poly people, even though I am not romantic with my other poly friend peoples. :) When I try to force or nudge a...

So I've come up with a way to help my gran AND have my own privacy. Tomorrow I'm applying for a call center job, since I know my last two call centers I got hired at I am fairly certain I can easily get this one. I also know I can last at least 3-4 months before a major PTSD/health issuse. So...

Last night was SO great, In one of my top nights ever with my favouritest peeps. :D I went out with Ariel, (my brief fling and Ariels husband) Landon, Landons current GF, Ariels current BF (of 1 year), and all of our geeky friends to dinners, drinks and boardgames. :) I also dyed my hair which...

Oh man...Ladyhawke. I saw that on TV as a kid the first time and had to revisit as an adult just to appreciate it completely. Great film!:D

Wellll... I decided to downgrade dreamer to friends. He wasn't happy with this and blocked and deleted me. I tried to be mature about it, but it was his immaturity that made me decide not to continue as more than friends. I didn't want him to spend money or plan anything until I was more...

You poll has NOT disproved that polyamory is non-diverse at large. Only that the people who *chose to disclose* and who *write on this forum* and who *have an account here* are mostly white. It does prove that white people prefer to be verbose about their relationship styles in online...

I wish this available somewhere online for us non residents :D

Because racial heritage and diversity conversations have been puttering around on this forum I thought i'd share my own racial diversity from my own experience in my cast of characters I've ever interacted with who either considered themselves poly now or in the past: 21 out of 30 people I know...

Hey everyone! Happy easter in various parts of the world for those who celebrate. I'm just posting a quick update about some good news bulletin style: *The other day my mom and I had a landmark good day, where we were able to be in each others company, and companiably with my arm around her on...

Hey Leetah, I'm really glad I could help in some small way. Mostly I just love to write and have been doing it for years so it's a hard habit to break haha. But my intention is to figure out why people are the way they are including myself, so if that helps awesome :D It wasn't my intention...

Yay! Such good news. :) And way to go with empowering Beaker to be taken seriously. Nothing is worse than health professionals doing a shitty job on mental or physical health because its not their "purview". Ugh. Had this problem recently with my grans blood thinners because everyone wanted to...