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I've been such a drama queen lately and I can't stand it. My most recent trigger...again health issues. Last Saturday morning my left ear drum ruptured. Intense pain, went to Urgent Care, prescribed antibiotics, bought a heating pad and the draining cleared up a bit but not enough to allow me...

Mags I'm glad this situation of buddhist and ginger dating is getting easier and that he's taken the time to really listen to you. I also wanted to thank you for your blog, I'm having triggers (since my surgery) too, and knowing that these things sort of damper any ability to have compersion has...

Ewe a one penis policy? Completely not fair imo. Do you want to meet another for yourself? If you did will J throw a tissy fit? You're long distance so why shouldn't you do what's best for you? I wouldn't be able to stay in this relationship where my hinge basically is controlling my choices...

A "unicorn" posted on facebook this morning she was dumped by her couple via email. Guess they didn't have the guts to tell her to her face and she's hurting bad now, probably even more, by not having it done in person. :confused:

Didn't know where to post this I'm working on a client's return and the street this person lived on some years ago is called POLY PLACE. Just thought I'd share. Reminds me to post this to the Poly Plus group on FB, a poly unit there was discussing changes in their relationship and wanting to...

I've been and am where you are but its up to me to make the changes I need to not be a home body. I refuse to be a victim of my circumstances even though stupid little things are currently preventing me from taking the reins and creating that change (my ear drum ruptured yesterday). Once I'm...

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W - you have a baby who will be here soon & a very loving supportive wife. Will you be focused on helping A out when you are home? Babies take up a lot of time and are a lot of work. No matter what you decide to do regarding how you feel for M, are you going to be able to be a 100% co-parent...

Thank you for that! Funny I read all of that when I first joined, but small things escape the memory. :D

The threads are weird. Some I can go back and edit and some I just can't. I forgot to put above about the disconnect. Another issue I had, my crap I have to deal with, was that on Tuesday bassman took princess to daycare (yes it's her normal day but I stated my concern Monday evening that she...

Been having a hard time reconnecting with bassman (formerly known as DH) {as wonderboy stated "if you're gonna blog, you should get creative" so here I go}. Arrived home late Monday. Bassman brought up the benefits of a relationship with another OSO in that it does not get diluted with those...

hi. i can't post because the "captcha" isn't showing up. Is there maintenance going on or something with my account? looking forward to your reply.

wonderboy I met wonderboy (formerly ldr guy) last night. He helped me figure out his name for my blog. Damn I wish even a ldr would work out, not to say it can't but he knows he can't handle the emotional aspect of poly. I suggested, based on our conversations last night, he's a swinger or...

If I wasn't a light weight and didn't have over 30 minutes to drive home a pounded I would've done. I did swagger though! Lol I'm definitely trusting my intuition... And the other poly guy I met months ago wants to hang out but (another eww) his teeth are gross, like bad decay (front ones)...

Life's been busy. I've worked so much in the last two weeks. 10 days straight, one day off and 40 hours in 3 days after that. Today I'm off and getting ready for the weekend road trip out of town. LDR guy and I get to meet tomorrow night. Yeah!!! Had a date with a gentlemen (not quite) on...

My daughter turns 16 in a few days. First off she wouldn't be okay hanging out with a 23 year old female or male unless said person is a close friend or extended family member. secondly she is so far from wanting to have sex but does want a boyfriend her age. From the OP the second I read her...

He's not respecting your boundaries for your sexual health. Don't blame girl A as your husband has control over his choices and right now, his choices appear to be unsafe sexual health. Are either of them experienced with polyamory? I'm sorry but your getting bulldozed. There is a lot here to...

Thanks for the empathy on stressors, it's helps knowing it happens to the best of us. Dating - yeah I don't get drunk but I had no control over puker. And with him, I asked him tons of questions about being ok with dating a poly married lady and he, at the time, was ok with all of it. I'm like...

So back on the 15th, I think it was, I drove over an hour away to have a date with TS. Great time at dinner, definite attraction, we go back to his place, have some drink, lots of talking, protected sex and about an hour later, the dude gets shitfaced and pukes. I couldn't stay. A child's throw...

@ Magdlyn - there's no "need" per se for fluid bonding with ldr guy, only just letting him know that if he wants that, he must be tested, otherwise, he'll be wrapped.