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    The Shift from Mono to Poly

    Just wanted to say that when I first started dating P who is poly I wanted DADT as well but only weeks later I realized I wanted to know what was going on in his life even if I was scared or hurt. I would rather not to be kept in the dark. It is likely that as she explores this new relationship...
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    Jealousy in Social Situations

    I love going to parties. I love to dance. I love the crowd we associate with. But at the same time, I still struggle to be social. I am always very excited to go out, and wouldn't stay at home, but some nights there are conflicts, or by the end of the evening I feel that my night wasn't...
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    Jealousy in Social Situations

    Ah, this makes so much sense. Thanks for the lesson on processing. Pairing is a unique and interesting concept. We go to a lot of parties, yes, almost as singles, it seems. I love parties, but this is challenging! P expects me to to flirt and get to know others with the same ease as his, but...
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    Understanding Needs vs Wants

    I am still unsure if P is poly. I know labels are just labels. It doesn't really matter. I explained to him that labels are reassuring at times. I explained "It makes no difference to me what you do, what kind of relationships you have ect". Id like however if we could understand and admit the...
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    Jealousy in Social Situations

    Hey, it's been a while since I have been on here! I am Glow. I have been in a relationship with polyamorous man, P, for about 7 or 8 months now. I have some question regarding interactions during social situations, how I should behave, etc. P has fooled around with a few girls (making out...
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    Marginalization of young polys

    after reading ygirls post i realized how dumb my post must have sounded. im not stupid okay. i know its cos im 20. LovingRadiance, I have always had older people in my life, Ive always connected with them better in some ways. Im sure it isnt horrible for your friends =) youre great!
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    Children and Polyamory: Merged Threads, General Discussion

    I'm not a mom, so I don't have too much experience. But I'm 20, so I might be able to help. Ask yourself these questions: Do I think it's important to tell him because I want to be honest. and feel that if I don't tell him I am essentially lying? Do I think he ought to know just because the...
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    New And Confused

    Hun I was in the same situation. I found myself attracted to a man who was poly and it seemed very new and scary, but I didnt feel innatley jelous so I thought i could try it out. Its been 5 months and it has been really challanging but beautiful. I have only been seeing him, but he has seen...
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    Marginalization of young polys

    I just turned 20 and I am in the poly community (i guess), Its a little strange only because most everyone I meet is older than me.
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    I just saw this film last night it was the best film i have seen in ages. it was amazing. every aspect of it.
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    Excited and Nervous

    me tooo. im nervous. im probably going by myself as P cant make it tonight. i have social anxiety disorder sooo...im nervous about socializing under the most 'normal' circumstances....but im going to try to push myself and have an open mind =D
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    It finally happened

    This is very true, and I agree wholeheartedly. I read somewhere that it is unfair to "try" polyamorous relationships without knowing if they are right for you, because it puts your partner's heart on the line. I tried it out, and I am very happy, even though its challenge. P is still not 100%...
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    begining poly and some isolation

    :D welcome! this place is the best. ive only been here for a short time and have made quite a few friends if you will, i have also had soo many questions answered on here. enjoy your stay!
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    Can a loner by polyamourous?

    I like this! thanks for sharing =)
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    Can a loner by polyamourous?

    I have really bad social anxiety and depression which pretty much makes me a loner, and I am still open to polyamory,or have been in a poly relationship but dating one person. That said having depression kinda conflicts with the poly lifestyle at times but i dont think being a "loner" would rule...
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    Have you always known if you are mono or poly?

    Adultolescent is the perfect term!:p
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    Word Association Game!

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