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Neat.

It's hard to figure out what you need help with. It sounds like you've found someone (or even two someones) that you are really into and so far things are going fine. Do you just want general advise on how people with poly longevity have made it work?

Woah! What kind of freak did we let in here?

Meet the Dragons. Sounds like a good movie. Who's in it?

But he ALSO seems very self-focused like nobody else's needs or feelings matter. I can STRONGLY (very strongly) sympathize with the desire to become a parent, but that does not excuse you loosing your humanity and treating people badly. When your whole attitude becomes "WE are going to become...

There is a lot to unpack here and I don't know how well my tired brain will do with this, but here'goes. I think you should definitely (as gently as possible) let Anne know that your feelings are changing. If there is anything at all that is going well, let her know some of that too, but also...

Here's my recommendation: Needs / Wants / Likes I Need you to stop being an ass I Want you to start considering my feelings in addition to your own I'd Like to believe this is possible but everything you do makes me skeptical How'zat?

I get no private messages. Which leaves me more time for public messages. Which suits me I guess.

Do you have any indication that they want to be integrated? I think a more important first step would be getting to the point where everyone understands explicitly what kind of relationship they're in. Even if everyone pretty much "gets it" through observation, that's nothing like having...

Because they have that word available to them. Younger folks will try on any self-identification that they are even tangentially related to to see if they want to wear it.

Sweet!

Hello Alex. Welcome.

I made a very dramatic transition in my life. I went from being a very monogamous minded, volatile and jealousy-prone person, to the polyamorous compersive, even-kkel fellow that I have become. I often tell my friends "I made it to the mountain top", because the who "what's the worst that...

Ceoli -=- Well, one of the characters does have a grandmother with the exact same last name you have (and happens to have taught her about the joys of music and such). ------- So um, those are some really long excerpts from some fairly long books, but if anyone gets any time to wade into any...

Randy Savoy is a VERY polyamorous bisexual male who grew up in the resistance. --------------------- Randy Savoy [08] Jerod Brannigan had done a good thing for his family. Most laboring class housing was very small no matter how many children you had. Every once in a while an...

Hotcha is a global superstar who had led a very sheltered life (clouded by substance abuse). She discovered the resistance movement and polyamory at the same time and jumped into both with joyous abandon. She has for the most part been very happy, but now finds herself suddenly sad. (her...

Janice is basically a character who has been polyamorous but is especially attached to polyamory. When she meets Jerod, an extremely devout Catholic and falls for him, she agrees to marry him and become monogamous, but also wants him to understand who she is... ---------------------- Janice...

So I've been an author since I could type (I wrote my first book at age 7 (an unofficial adaptation of the movie Star Wars (22 pages: illustrated))). And I write a LOT. A lot lot. I have been polyamorous for almost 6 years and I was in a relationship with a polyamorous woman for more than a...

I would have to concur with the general sentiment that there seems to be no problem here. It sounds like everyone is doing their best, and that everyone accepts that everyone else is doing their best. So why put pressure on yourself to "progress" faster, when there appear to be basically no...

Your sitcom treatment has been approved. Hi-larious. We'll call some casting agents right away and put in an order for 26 episodes. This could be bigger than the Cosby Show. Wait. Say what? This is your actual life? Eeep. *backs out of the room nervously*