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    Hello, from UK

    Hi James Did you find this - https://www.facebook.com/groups/UK.Poly/ That may be useful
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu !!!!!! If the job sorts itself out, and it might soon, then good. Im on 15 days no contact with my love. The emptiness is awful, and the question repeats "why did she tell me every day for 18 months that she didnt want anyone else" ..... and now its all...
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    Lost.... Don't know what to do

    YES! and thats why Im on here, even though I might never have a poly setup again, this is THE best place ive found for relationship advice :-) and... hugs - sorry for your situation :-(
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    im in limbo - The place i work for isnt paying me . ive downed tools, and now i have no work. The place I work for gets work from another company. That company dont want to lose me and they want me to switch to another of their subcontracted companies! So it looks like I am moving to a new...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Thanks both. I am very in love with her... but my logic knows that no contact is best, so I am overriding my heart. Im sorting out some other stuff too - evicting my stupid tenant who is £1400 ($2800) in arrears. They live 20 steps from the school and they are expecting another baby in a few...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Day 6 with no contact.... Its going ok.....
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Have been in daily contact with my lost love, phone calls and sometimes 80 or more whatsapp messages per day. She is in great pain and I care deeply for her and her kids that are caught up in a separation. But I am in too much pain myself, since she broke up with me, to be able to help her...
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Still struggling with lost love here.....she and I could talk for hours.... I cant find anyone else like that :-(
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Thank you. I am meeting new people but hmmm, thats a slow process too.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Can't move on from my lost love. How long does the grieving process take? I'm a lot closer to contentment than a few weeks ago, but it's still yuk.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Nycindie, well done! I am still cut up about ex love . Im messaging plenty of women, most are too far away from me. In any case, i cant find that deep connection I had with her. It sucks. On a good note, ive booked a holiday to Australia with my son for April. Hooray.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Agree!!!!! The lady is loooovely, and if she would agree to that, i would do it ! i will try for a meetup next.
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    The "How Are You Doing" Thread (redux)

    Thanks Kevin, ive met two, and while the sparks might not be huge, one of them is sweet enough. Another lives (bugger) 100 miles away .
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    New to poly, new to performance anxiety.

    glad you are in a good place.
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    New poly-relationship has me in crisis!

    This is brilliant news, keep thinking like that !!!
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    New to poly, new to performance anxiety.

    Magdyln, you are right, it is of course connected to the guys feelings and so on as well, and yes, that is the problem of course. And i agree it will get better when he feels more comfortable going forwards and gets used to the idea. But my suggestions was imagining that if there is a feeling...
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    New to poly, new to performance anxiety.

    You can pleasure here in more ways than just your penis. Why not give her orgasms in other ways?
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    New poly-relationship has me in crisis!

    http://www.polyamory.com/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=26 Have a look at this list of resources.
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    New poly-relationship has me in crisis!

    Well, you keep rambling, we are here to help you. You have courage and strength, my friend, and i hope you have read the success stories on here. If you think its jealousy, there are many resources listed here. Did you look up the book? I think you need it NOW!! :):):)
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