Newobsession
New member
Hi, brand new to this poly thing. Having a rough transition from mono (though it certainly could be worse)
Wife has a long distance boyfriend, they text all day, she gets all hot and bothered and at night I get laid.
Until about two nights ago when we were getting intimate I just kept losing my erection as jealous thoughts would enter my mind during the moment.
I am trying to stop focusing on how he turns her on like I never could. But , damnit, it's hard.
I have never had a problem with getting/maintaining an erection, has anyone else experienced something similar?
What can I do to let go of this anxiety?
After and during initial shock and pain of hearing about her relationship (it was a secret that she came to me and told me about) The sex we were having was amazing, and healing.
I want my mojo back!
Wife has a long distance boyfriend, they text all day, she gets all hot and bothered and at night I get laid.
Until about two nights ago when we were getting intimate I just kept losing my erection as jealous thoughts would enter my mind during the moment.
I am trying to stop focusing on how he turns her on like I never could. But , damnit, it's hard.
I have never had a problem with getting/maintaining an erection, has anyone else experienced something similar?
What can I do to let go of this anxiety?
After and during initial shock and pain of hearing about her relationship (it was a secret that she came to me and told me about) The sex we were having was amazing, and healing.
I want my mojo back!