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First, I'm glad to see you still posting your thoughts and feelings out on this. I've read older threads where people pull away because they hear what they don't want to admit. Call it what you want. Some have labeled it "psychoanalytical bullshit," and some have seen the wisdom in it. Take...

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I hate the term slut, generally, for so many reasons. First, there's the implications that someone having a lot of sex is bad. The second is that it's a gender-loaded term. I'm a bit... out of the loop. To me, sex is, by its nature, intimate. My wife can and does have casual sex, and I'm fine...

Plural... Cause Poly is too easy. ;)

When my wife and I expanded into poly, we had a rule that was more or less don't-ask-don't-tell. This isn't a thing where I was uninterested but... well, I have a very "unique" network of friends and my dating pool is somewhat limited to that network. My wife is also part of that network and in...

It works the same way. I'm an individualist. To me, there's no three-party relationship, there are multiple individual relationships. Each person thinks and feels independently, and has different boundaries that need to be respected by each person, regardless of how many people are in someone's...

I realized I didn't give my criteria. I'm a political activist, so I use my political platform as a guide. If someone is in my network of friends and like-minded people, I'll add them. Additionally, if I know someone personally (and I consider online relationships to be personal relationships)...

What criteria do you use to add Facebook friends? I'm curious, especially after seeing so many "add me" signatures. :)

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Sugar (daddy/mamma). (Mono, I thought you were confusing "Dryads" with "Triads" but when I Googled it, I found a poly.com thread. How funny!)

I get it. I do. I'm a HUGE fan of letting every relationship evolve into what it might be. On the flip side of that, knowing I agree with you quite a bit, it sucks to have anything stifled.

Blood. (And Mono... How did THAT association come up?)

I think this kind of highlights how no situation is best for everyone. I have a friend who has a "primary" and several "secondaries" and everyone involved is okay with this because they each fulfill what the other wants. For me, well... My wife is my "primary." We share finances and all of of...

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Since this is the spiritual thread... I've always wondered why someone feels the need to 'prove' what they thing spiritually. No, I take that back. I once used to be a "rabid atheist". Once I realized that it is I was doing, I started to resent it. Why does someone have to knock someone who...

Congrats. I've got to say, that had the best ending it could have. Please, keep popping into the forums. :)

Leaving New Hampshire does that to folks. :P Oh... I suppose "teasing" is also a hobby of mine!

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