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We have a date night coming this weekend. Tabitha and I will have some time alone and are planning to surprise V with a home cooked meal of his favorites. I'm really looking forward to this date night. V thinks Tabitha and I are going out for a few hours to a mutual friends concert. It's so hard...

Oh, today Tabitha showed me yet again why she is amazing. This is all new to her, dating a couple, being with a woman, just everything. She has so far handled things well that most wouldn't. She is understanding, caring, and generous. Today she knew V had been having a rough couple of days due...

Yes, it makes sense.

I was a unicorn in a relationship. I fit most of that list at the time. Oh well, lesson learned. Now I am working my butt off to be sure the girlfriend V and I share doesn't end up like I was. One big difference is we have told her if someone comes along and she wants to date them, she is free...

Well surprisingly Tabitha and I were off work at the same time today. We ended up at mine and V's house where we seriously cuddled and talked. I love how easy she is to talk to. We discussed quite a few things today from our pasts to the present. V was at work and knew we both got off work early...

Thank you for that. I needed someone to point those things out. They were in the back of my mind, but I had not really focused on them. Not for lack of desire to focus on them buy because I had not taken time to focus on them fully. Things have changed from what was originally expected. What...

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Well the last couple of days were chaotic and interesting to say the least. We had some issues arise with my oldest child. That then spilled over into our whatever it is. As I mentioned before Tabitha began asking some really good questions trying to get an understanding of things over last...

Sorry for the multiple threads. Thanks for fixing it for me. Not sure why I didn't think of it. Yesterday was a really bad day at work. I ended up in a very pissy mood. Ended up a bit snappy with both of them. I did apologize and separated myself for some down time to kind of get over being...

Things take an interesting turn Well things are still going well and moving slowly. T has ask some really good questions trying to understand more of the possible potential of whatever this is we are doing. I refuse to attempt to define it at this point. I want it to become what it will without...

T is struggling to understand how I am ok with knowing her and V talk/text or potentially more in the future. V took her to lunch today so they could talk about things. V explained why I am ok with all of this. In explaining it to her to help calm her fears he began to understand it himself. T...

So after a LOT of talking and V getting to talk to T face to face, he is slowly becoming comfortable with things if they happened one on one. He sees that unlike before T isn't trying to take me from him or him from me. It's not all sunshine and rainbows, there is still work to be done, but at...

Been there done that. It ain't easy, but is so worth the work IF everyone is willing to put in the hard work. 3 people, 3 personalities, 3 ways of viewing everything, and 3 perspectives. You will each get to different points at different times. It takes a crap ton of understanding, patience...

Fortunately I do feel that I can do that and everyone is ok with it. I'm going to give it more thought and figure out what I feel is best and then talk to them and get their opinions.

Some background... he cheated before we ended up in the previous relationship. During that entire relationship with the other couple he was pretty much the same way when it came to me alone with either of them but especially her. There was a lot of insecurities on his part and I get that. DI'd...

And so it begins... Last night I posted regarding a possible 3some with someone I met and got to know over the last several months. T is interested in us and we are interested in her. Last night I had some worries but didn't quite know what all they were other than her and how she would handle...

That is what I needed or at least something along those lines. I don't want to over analyze this to the point she no longer even wants to try it. However, I do want to take it seriously enough that she doesn't do it expecting one thing and leaves feeling used or rejected because she got...

So last time I was here, about 4 and a half years ago, I was in a triad as the unicorn. We ended the relationship on somewhat ok terms. I was also in the middle of a nasty divorce. My husband and I reconciled and in the time since have put in tons of work on our marriage. We have had some rough...

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I have managed it in the past, but am struggling with it now. We split mutually even though we still care for each other quite a bit. Right now because of the feelings still involved its hard to know how to move on. I want to call and share everything like I always did, but its to raw for us. I...