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LOL, I wouldn't cross my girl. Forget a kitten, she's a bit of a tiger. Mreow! Love ya J.

Just a quick note So I am not goin to type much. Just a quick a hello to show I am still alive. Things are going well for DH and me. And folks be proud. I have decided it was high time I did something to help my self confidence and will power. One of my workout friends has convinced me that I...

KT It is amazing to see how much not only you but your relationships with these people have grown. Way to stand by your man and MG and understand where they are coming from even if it sounds odd to the rest of us. I know that at times in my posts DH can come across rough and not so great but I...

For me this sounds alot like it was for awhile with J, DH and myself. They would have troubles, I would get miserable. We would eventually all feel better and DH would just wait for another one of my downward spirals. Not really another fight between him and J but more another one of my hitting...

Schrodingers, I think you misunderstood me. My DH most certaintly does not objectify women and the whole thing about me only getting gf if he can watch was purely a joke that we had. Hence the "LOL" in there. He clearly states to me that it takes a strong person to be able to share their SO's...

No matter how well you are doing it is always hard to find those things that he writes to his girlfriend. It doesn't take away from what he feels for you. It is just hard to see what he feels for another woman or significant other. But how you handle it from there is important. I know it was...

Hey there. Sorry I haven't checked in. DH and I have both been down with the stomach flu so checking the computer was the last thing on the mind. After a round of that I think I can tackle any problem, lol. Still getting my strength back. Anyway, KT how are you doing now? Still frustrated. I...

J and DH were able to talk on the phone and through text yesterday. They both needed it. And my husband was positively glowing after being able to talk to her. He has been horrible at hiding himself the last few days. Well to anyone else I doubt they would have thought differently. But I could...

Folks, This is a long road we have ahead of us. As I have been texting J back and forth today I started admitting stuff to her I didn't realize myself. I never realized how much I don't trust my own husband. That is horrible I know. But I was admitting to her that I trust her more than I do...

LOL, That is awesome Mohegan! Go You! I will post more later. Just wanted to say that you are doing so well!

Kat, I am so glad you are making such progress and that you and MG are getting along. I will post more later! Good Luck!

An end and a Beginning Hello my readers, how about a new twist in my story. J and DH have broken up officially. J's husband just could not accept this relationship. So while he didn't ask for her to do this, for the sake of her marriage she did. I respect her decision and and continue to be...

Something about this bothers me. Did he invite her before he checked with you? Or did he just tell you he already thought of it and then asked her? If he already asked her I think he might have jumped the gun a little. With everything in such a fragile state right now he really needs to run...

Way to go Kat! You are doing awesome! I would have been worried sick! Although if I had known ahead of time he was going to be with J I would have just assumed he had fallen asleep with her and would be home as soon as he woke up. I don't think I would have been furious. Maybe a little...

A Step Ladder So this past weekend of I fell to what felt the very bottom of this ladder that I am climbing in understanding, accepting and being ok with everything that is happening in my life. It was crazy and heart wrenching. And now I am slowly trying to climb back up. I was pretty banged...

Ok, I was curious. I know it is a hard topic to cover. Like I said, I have been through it with DH but for now I know I am not interested and he doesn't want me to be interested until we are under better terms. He has mentioned he doesn't mind me having a gf as long as he gets to watch, lol...

Mo, I have a question for you. I know that it varies between situations. But considering that your husband now has a girlfriend and you two are working toward the poly life what has been the feelings toward you having boyfriend. How does he feel about that. How do you feel about that? Are you...

Isn't it amazing how much each others blogs help us. I love this site.

I'm getting worried about J. She has been quiet today. I hope she is doing ok. I think she might be getting annoyed with me checking up on her and not believing she is fine. But I have learned to read her rather well and I know something is wrong. I don't know what or with who. I stepped back to...

Mohegan, yes I have heard that from DH as well! But obviously not all sex is just casual. He found his exception where it lead to love and now we are left handling the emotions that go with it. Trying to be behappy and accepting them for who they are. I love DH but how did he not see this coming!