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I am sure he wouldn't be uncomfortable discussing it at all. We are a very open and honest couple. I just feel I need to take his feelings into consideration, he has been with her for 12 years and I was only with her for 2 months. I just wish I knew the person she was before Iraq. He says that...

hey girl! I know I haven't been on in awhile, so I thought I would try and get the latest on you and also update you on everything. my bf and gf split, she wanted to be exclusive with a guy she fell in love with in Iraq. So for now it is just me and my bf. He is getting 51% custody of the kids...

thank you. my bf and i are still doing well though. I just need to find a way to move on and I know with time I will. I just wish I felt comfortable talking to him about my hurt. But I am not sure if it is okay to discuss my feelings about it because I know he is hurting too, he was married to...

hey all! I know it has been awhile, but alot has happened since the last time I was here (august). Wow, where do I even start! Ok well a brief summary of us and then the update. I met my bf at a local gay bar after he got back from Iraq, that was in July. His wife came back in August and we...

Ok, so I don't live in the best apartment complex, there have been ppl pulled from their apt in handcuffs by the cops and ambulances taking ppl out as well. One of the first nights my gf was back from Iraq her and her hubby had a disagreement outside the apt and some guy got nosey and chatted a...

OMG, FitChick. That is totally what I need to do. Thank you so much for the suggestion. I was all up in knots that night and had all sorts of thoughts, but mostly negative, because he wasn't talking with me. He explained later that it was due to him shutting off his phone because he had some...

thank you so much! I know the two lifestyles are incredibly different, but they just made me feel like I was less important than them because I was a civilian. How are things with the new interest? my gf and bf's house closes today, so they will be moving out, it will be difficult, but I think I...

I am glad I didn't overreact and really sat with my thoughts last night. I was honestly trying not to take it personally, because I know they both love me, but I am not sure if they realized what turmoil I was in last night. This morning I still feel a bit hurt, but I am more rational than I...

Emotion getting in the way? So, like I said in previous posts, I am in a triad with a military couple who have recently gotten back from Iraq. Well, because of this, they didn't have a place to stay unless they wanted to spend hundreds on a hotel for two months. They have been trying to buy a...

Thank you all so much for your input. It is helpful for me to understand that not all will be accepting. I guess I just wish sometimes the world wasn't so blind or nieve to the diff sexualities out there.

I am very excited to meet the kids and I will def be updating as this relationship and such progresses... :)

They are currently living with me! Their house closes this week, so they will be moving out the beginning of September. Yes, but not much. Yes, both separately (he and I, more than she and I) and together. Yes, at least once a week, when she goes over to her bf's house. But I am not...

I am not sure, I don't think so, but they are both in the military, so we always have to be cautious about our sexuality and being together and such. But since my family doesn't really know them, it shouldn't have an effect on them.

I am currently in a Triad relationship with a married couple. So I have both a girlfriend and boyfriend, but she isn't out. I am out to most of my friends. The reason I feel I really want to get out there is because I am tired of hiding who I am. this is a part of that and I really want to...

Thank you so much for the insight, GS. This is all very new to all of us. I think this experience will grow all of us. I have trouble with patience sometimes, but will continue to work on that. The relationship between us women is lacking a bit. Some girl time is probably a good idea. She just...

coming out as bisexual Ok, I know that this isn't poly, but it is related so I thought I would post to get other's opinions. I have been into both male and female since high school, but during high school it was an awkward stage and very confusing time. Now as an adult I am learning to accept...

Welcome! I have also just entered into a Triad relationship. We are all very new to this too. This place has really helped! :)

first poly relationship My first poly relationships are in a triad shape. I am with a married Army couple. It was a V, me and him, but when the woman got back from Iraq, my relationship with her began to grow. We have all created a wonderful bond. I don't get a lot of alone time with either...

Hi there! This is all very new to me, too. I am in a triad. I am the gf of both the wife and husband in the relationship. This def has it's challenges. It is difficult, in a way, to be an addition. But I think we are working out the kinks a bit. I still feel a little like the third wheel...

So true about the lgbt community, it is so hard for us bisexuals to really fit into any kind of setting because of the judgements, I have lost a gf due to my being bisexual. :( this weekend was a bit interesting. I went out with her and her army girlies over the weekend and had a horrid panic...