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Wow! I smell disaster! Is "Jane" even Poly? She sounds like a mono forced to accept "Carl's" other relationships.

perhaps you could find someone for a mono relationship that was poly curious. spending some time mono and building a strong foundation to a relationship isn't always a bad thing. then, once you're solid, you can bring others into the relationship. I met my wife coming from a hotwife style...

I've been with my GF for 3 1/2 months and living with her for almost 2. She's beautiful like a model, screws like a porn star and parties like a rock star. We had such amazing chemistry! I loved her SO much. She was so easy to be with. We fluid bonded in January and I wanted to be with her a...

I took my GF to a restaurant because I enjoy eating out. I also took her to a gallery because I enjoy art. Just because I've done both of those activities with my wife doesn't mean I'm recycling anything. Be IN the moment with your partner and don't worry about anything else.

I wish my wife had a steady boyfriend(s) that were tested and safe. She loves the feeling and I'm not turned off by it at all.

Nancy has no manners and no tact. I'm not saying you should dump her like she was contaminated with plague but does she ever make YOU feel special?

1. You MUST make time for each other. This it's not a poly think, it's a relationship thing. 2. I used to take care of the house when my ex GF (we lived together) went out on dates. When she came home she would tell me every detail of the date while we humped like wild beasts. You need to be...

I agree with Claire. Having a meta disrespect me is a deal breaker.

OP should have asked for pictures.

Perhaps you would be better off forming your own V

If YOU want kids with Darren and funds are low he shouldn't be having kids with Kate. If Darren has kids with Kate and not you that's a TON of time and resources he's going to divert to that relationship. The children will bring them together in a way you could never compete with. IMHO as a father.

Train wreck? What an understatement!!! He's got some communication and honesty issues.

I just got home from a trip and got bumped by my GF for a lover she has from out of town. He's only here for a few more days. Do I wish it was ME spending the night at her house? Sure, but I certainly can't be angry. I'll be here when he leaves.

I just want to chime in saying I hate the term unicorn and all of the hate/whatever that people express towards unicorn hunters. If the third person is OK with the conditions dictated by the existing couple then who are WE to say that it's wrong or right? I rarely see that level of hate...

I've always said that it takes a boatload of hubris to think one person can meet all of the needs of another person. That's why we have family, that's why we have (and need) friends of all genders, etc...

I enjoy hearing every detail about my partner's encounters. I've even watched her with her boyfriend in a very public session at a club. She doesn't want to hear a single detail about my GF. Not her name, not when we go out, nothing! You need to discover your own boundaries.

So you're drifting towards poly but get upset over the thought of your partner with someone else? Yikes! You need to work out these issues before proceeding.

He gave you an ultimatum. He should have planned for the case where you rejected it ( and him)

QFT. Instead of being mad at Tad for not taking you back you should send some of that frustration to Cory for pressuring you too break up with Tad and Annie, then rekindling with Annie leaving you in an awkward position.

You can always tell what's important in someone's life: what they spend time on.