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As a meta who could be in this position , I have to say it totally helps me to hear that you are respectful of over sharing that can happen in crisis situations. You and Andy know each other so well. I would want you to do exactly what you are doing. Being supportive while also being...

Yay for a great date! You deserve the fun. Enjoy

I feel the need to watch this show as I too am currently miserable and hopped up on cold meds. Can this really be a thing? My sick sense of humor is salivating at the thought.

And no you aren't weird. Lady and I rarely tell real about prospective dates until the day of and then he just knows we have a date. Actual people details occurs aroundthe time sex is a possibility then it's more about health type stuff. And meetings hppen when it fits or when it becomes...

And no you aren't weird. Lady and I rarely tell real about prospective dates until the day of and then he just knows we have a date. Actual people details occurs aroundthe time sex is a possibility then it's more about health type stuff. And meetings hppen when it fits or when it becomes...

I always take the wife/husband talk and or the spouse contact as an attempt to assure me that this conversation isn't cheating and that his or her contacting me is not this persons attempt to escape a drama filled situation. I view it as a nice but newbie thing. ...kinda like an over eager...

Does it help if you phrase it as what you are /aren't willing to accept in a partner? As in the beginning discussions, "I need a partner who respects my privacy. For me that means my partners don't share details of our sex life with thers. That would be a deal breaker for me" I also think...

Such a great pic!

I can't do the sex without overnight snuggles either. It's just something I need to feel connected. Never or rarely getting to sleep all night in my lovers arms would break my heart a tiny piece at a time. It's a need I'm very clear about with my partners. For me, I need that intimacy. I'd...

Sending you some Internet ice cream

This statement right here is why you are awesome Kevin. I think you would be my friend in the non Internet world if I knew you

I just checked in on your thread because I hadn't seen you post in a while. I'm so sorry about the issues. I've appreciated your sharing. I'm sorry about the pain you are experiencing. I wish you nothing but good thoughts and happiness. You are an amazing person and I'm sending you belated...

I find that when girls interested in my men voice and dont act on an interest in me, it's either a) They have never really explored an actual same sex relationship and are insecure about navigating it or b) just voicing the common fantasy to inject some excitement in the shared partner. If a) I...

I will be sad to see you post less. I value your perspective. But I second reverie in saying do what's best for you. It's been helpful for me to follow your thoughts and see how someone else works poly. For what it's worth I think you do poly well and hate seeing you get so anxious about...

Thanks tinwen! Since D/s stuff is not my thing I'm never sure. It's always good to get some feedback and often just good for me to write out a situation to get my head around it.

The reason I mention the dom thing is because they did have a power exchange and the trust level in that relationship I also don't fully understand as I don't practice bdsm either. I do know that it adds a further nuance to her feelings of betrayal and now questioning the trustworthiness of the...

So lady and her dom recently broke up. He was lying to her and cheating on her despite their being open. Asshole! I'm trying to figure out how to best be supportive through the breakup. Recently she has needed assurance of honesty while recognizing this is her issue. We are pretty close for...

Totally adorable. I have a little vicarious lust lol. Hope you have a great time with your boys and your polycule time. You deserve the fun!

I think I've found a new weight loss method. Have my 10yr old nephew to spoil for 3 weeks. We have hiked biked and swam for days. I might die. But his happy go lucky excitement at everything is real motivation to keep going. I may not be able to move in a few days but he better than my...

Depends I suppose. Lady has sent some celebratory chocolate or cheese or adult beverage down with real when we celebrate our anniversary. I've taken their kiddos overnight to give them space to celebrate theirs without having to worry about a sitter. But it's not an every year thing. Any...