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Thank you all again for your responses. Much appreciated. Kevin, you make a lot of good points. I think it's just my nature to worry about things, unfortunately. On a very positive note, we have now met his group of close friends twice (hung out with them this weekend as well), and although...

Thank you both for your responses. Things really are going amazingly well. I just always have this underlying fear that because Ted is so young and so "aloof" sometimes, that the rug is gonna be pulled out from under us, and we'd be completely crushed!!! We are both in love with this kid, 100%...

Hey everyone I posted something in here back in December. My hubby (together 15 years, married for 8) and I are 38 and 40 years old, respectively. Last September, we met an amazing young man, Ted, who changed our lives unexpectedly. He contacted us online and asked us if we’d like to hang out...

Hey Kevin, thanks for your response. I'd hesitate to call it "love" at this point, thought there are definite strong feelings here. We're still kinda all getting to know each other well. My hubby is ok with polyamory, but is really uncertain it's for him. But he absolutely likes our new...

Hey everyone! I posted my first post on here about a month and a half ago about this situation, but wanted to get some opinions on where this is headed. My hubby and I (we are both men) are about to celebrate our 15-year anniversary together in February. I am 39, and hubby is 37. We met in...

Just wanted to post a quick update of this situation. Our new friend spent the entire weekend here with us last weekend, and the three of us get along really, really well. Went to see a hockey game on Sun, stayed over Sat & Sun nights, and went to work from here on Mon morning. We are gonna...

Thank you all. Your responses have been awesome and have helped a lot. One other thing to mention -- this desired "triad" of sorts wouldn't really be a true full-time relationship, at least not for quite a while. We both have busy lives, and family and friends we see often, events, holidays...

I def want to talk with my hubby about this, no question. I know he feels this way because he has said in the past that he does not want a boyfriend or a three-person relationship. This has been stated. However it's a Catch 22, in a way. Total monogamy is not ever going to happen. That's a fact...

All of these points are very valid. Makes sense. To answer one question though-- there would be no relationship other than with both my hubby and me together. It would be a triad of sorts, if it were to ever go anywhere, not a V-type relationship. No emotional relationship for either of us...

Thanks again, everyone, for giving your 2 cents and opinions. It is greatly appreciated. The thing that is really stopping me from asking both of them these questions (especially my hubby) is that I think it may be too early for it. Like I said, we have only had Ted overnight 3 times (with a...

Okay, let me clarify a bit. Ted truly likes both of us equally. There is no favoritism at all. I think he likes the fact that we're a committed married couple. He met us because he was attracted to us both. He keeps in touch with us regularly by text. Nothing deep or personal, just "shooting...

Thanks for your replies! I really have no interest in having Ted as a separate "boyfriend." My interest lies only with us, as a three-person unit of some sort. I am under no illusions. I know Ted is young, has very limited experience, etc. Still, when the 3 of us have spent time together, it...

Hey everyone, I'm new to this site, and this subject in general. This post is gonna be pretty lengthy. I am just looking for some general advice. Here goes: I am a 39-year old gay male, legally married to my 37-year old husband. We have been together for 15 years now, married for 7 of those...