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    It's over; did I try hard enough?

    This is long, and I completely understand it if no one reads it. I guess I need to put it into the universe. I guess I need to hear whether I was right or wrong. Any words of comfort will help. It's over that won't change but I need to know that I'm not crazy in thinking I did everything I...
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    Communication advice-full disclosure

    Hi everyone If any of you have read my past posts you know that my boyfriend and I were struggling to move from a monogamous arrangement to an open one. He feels that his nature is free and open and I've always felt more naturally monogamous. Anyway, I'm happy to say that we are back...
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    Leaving with someone else

    I'm wondering how other couples deal with this. I personalty don't want to feel like I'm not my partners choice if I'm with him. If he enters into a committed relationship with a secondary partner, I do understand that there may be times we'll all need to be at the same place and time but we...
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    Advice Please? Meeting his new lover for the first time

    If you've read my past posts you know that I've been struggling with opening my mind to polyamory. Long story short my ex and I broke up but were still very much in love, He discovered that he was poly and I didn't think I could consider it at the time. We've started seeing each other again...
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    Becoming non monogamous-Jealousy, Fear, Envy, insecurity

    I wonder if anyone can give me some helpful advice. I have spent most of my life being one of those people who is extremely against open relationships. I know now, that it's more because of my fears and upbringing than anything. When I was 36 I met and fell in love with a guy who was 22. He is...
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    He slept with someone- I'm having a hard time

    My boyfriend and I recently broke up after nearly 5 years because he was having a hard time remaining monogamous. Since then we have been seeing each other again without any clear guidelines as to what it is. Last night he had sex with someone for the first time. I was somewhat mentally...
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    Considering open relationship..and very anxious Please help!!

    Hello I'm gay and I have been in 3 long term monogamous relationships pretty much back to back and have not had a lot of single time to explore sexual openness. My most recent boyfriend and I have been having problems for a few years. Communication, on his part has not been very good. He hid...
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