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    Just starting to date as married and poly - Suggestions please.

    I guess I wouldn't mind a little input. Background. I came out to my wife as poly in Jan of 2018 and it was a struggle for her even though we had done some swinging and she has no problem with me having sex with other women. My coming out as "poly" in mindset came with the disclosure that I...
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    The Insanity of "Coming Out"

    So I recently had an experience that made the point of how hideous our current societal norms are with respect to monogamy. My therapy is my 12 step program fellowship. Several weeks ago on a Sunday afternoon, I thought I would go to a different meeting. I saw one in the directory relating to...
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    Referral to Poly friendly marriage counselor in LA area?

    Does anyone here have suggestions for a poly friendly marriage counselor around the Los Angeles area. I live on the south end of LA right by the orange co border. So north orange county would work as well. I am waiting for a return call from one listed on the poly referral site in my town, but...
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    Poly and Spirituality Are One & the Same (for me)

    Let me state up front that this wasn't always the case for me as I didn't know what poly was until a couple of years ago. I believe poly and spirituality and inextricably tied together. True love expects nothing in return. It simply is. It is not given in exchange for something in return. That...
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    Rebirthing a Marriage - Or I Love My Wife!

    As this is my first post I would like to thank everyone who has posted their life stories and tales as this has helped me immensely figure out what I want from poly. I will start this story with a quick snapshot from today. My wife and I are communicating fearlessly and currently reading "The...
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