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How did you navigate going public with your non-nesting partner? Context: our home is a city in a small country, so “city” really means a big village. Neither me nor Edgar (my NP) can come out of the closet at home without harm. Having been together forever, we are known as a unit by our wide...

I’ve been lurking here for years now. I’ve even started a blog on this site last year, before writing this intro, because I needed more time to make everything feel ok in my head. Hi, I’m Cathy (hetero 41F), happily together with Edgar (hetero 46M) for 20+ years, 13 of them married, 2 children...

Hi folks, I’ve been mulling over my thoughts on (excellent) feedback here after posting my story as a blog entry the other day. Short summary: I/Cathy, a hetero female, in a long stable marriage to Edgar (hetero male), have recently developed a deep crush on Heathcliff (male, bi) - close...

I’ve been lurking here for some years and this is yet another attempt to commit my story to writing but I’m not sure I will be brave enough to post, let alone continue as a blog, but maybe it will be helpful, who knows?! I’m 40, hetero female, happily married to a wonderful human, hetero male...