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    Starting relationships as a newly Poly/ENM straight married man

    Hi everyone, I am sure this has been discussed, so my first question is: can anyone point me to some helpful older threads about "Starting relationships as a newly Poly/ENM straight married man" - or it doesn't have to be that specific, just starting relationships in general (I'm deliberately...
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    Getting through the initial stage of partner having sex with meta

    Hi all, I'm looking for some advice on getting through a specific period in opening a relationship: Starting the sex part. Just as a summary, my partner R came out as poly, we went through a period of poly hell, I got a lot of support on this forum. We're now in couples therapy with a...
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    Opening mono relationships and pregnancy

    I just finished reading Opening Up (well, skimming, but I'll go back to it more thoroughly) and really enjoyed it. However, one topic that she seemed to skip over was the question of pregnancy. She covered STIs and safer sex very thoroughly. This is important, but the topic of pregnancy, to me...
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    The Jealosy Diary

    If you want some background, here's my Intro thread: https://polyamory.com/threads/afraid-of-taking-the-leap-from-a-lt-mono-relationship.153695/ I've appreciated everyone's responses and support. I took a break from the forum around Thanksgiving, and have been mulling things over and focusing on...
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    How/when do you know what style of poly you want or need?

    I had a hard time titling this post - I hope I got the idea across. My wife recently came out as poly (see my other thread in Introductions for details). She says the type of relationship she is interested in is a FWB-like situation. I am not sure at what point that blurs into 'boyfriend'...
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    Really bad night of talks with wife, and now it's my birthday

    Hi all, I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this; I've been writing a lot on my introductions thread, but needed to just express myself here. My wife came out as poly and now we're trying to figure out how to make it work. She thinks it will be simple, I think it will be fucking...
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    Afraid of taking the leap from a LT Mono relationship

    Hi everyone, I thought I would post an introduction and describe a bit about my situation, which is pretty emotionally challenging for me. I have some of this with friends, but have not really been able to discuss it with people experienced in polyamory, so I would love to hear if anyone has...
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