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  1. Mignonne

    Sleep to Dream

    The Passengers Queen of Swords, am I? I see your heart, and raise you a spade. He and I met simply because I imposed on a conversation, he was holding an Italian rapier and I recognized the hilt. I had trained with the weapon in fencing, so I rather ejaculated upon seeing it. The conversation...
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    Sleep to Dream

    I gaze at the profile of Igor as he sleeps, I enjoy taking captures of him in such sedate or thoughtful states, as he can be quite animated. The curl of the lash, sweep of the brow, the broad heaving chest. Every day is its own life-time, its own eternity. And I am afraid of forever. I trace...
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    Newbie here, and what is a girl to do?

    I assume you meant you wish they wouldn't expect. Anyway, so much of my yes on this. I am very one on one, and I find it is difficult to enjoy the experience of a woman with a man around most of the time, unless we are really established. Every girl I have liked, and then found out she wanted...
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    Lack of jealousy due to attractiveness (I feel really awful admitting this)

    No, I am thoroughly enjoying this derailed thread. I do this on FB quite frequently, so I hope it doesn't get taken down. I think I've aired out my guilty conscience about the OP and purged it a bit. I'm pretty chill. You know, classically trained and all. lol Oh, and no, I have not smacked...
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    Lack of jealousy due to attractiveness (I feel really awful admitting this)

    It seems she does, but she has been given and enabled a lot of hand holding. I'm not going to pretend to be the expert on what is best, but so far coddling her hasn't helped her progress and has stunted her ability to enter into adulthood (Dick, this is one of the factors that prevents my...
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    It's not anything foreign to me, or super WTF honestly. I know it's not a fetish thing for you...

    It's not anything foreign to me, or super WTF honestly. I know it's not a fetish thing for you exactly, but I am familiar with some of those internal processes from having friends who practise similar things.
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    I'm not the most computer savvy myself, and trying to quote snippets of everyone's responses was...

    I'm not the most computer savvy myself, and trying to quote snippets of everyone's responses was actually very time consuming. I am not sure if there is an easier way to do it. The Skype nick, oh lol! It came from some morbid conversation a friend and I were having on ritual suicide and I said...
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    Lack of jealousy due to attractiveness (I feel really awful admitting this)

    Thanks for the reassuring words and yes that is me but I thought I took it down. I really like the reference to Fiddler on the Roof, that is one of my favorites. Yes, we have a lot of stuff going on, I am kind of amazed we are together and all getting along so well. I really do feel bad for...
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    Lack of jealousy due to attractiveness (I feel really awful admitting this)

    Heh, being human can be ugly. No pun intended in this thread. But yes, this is the sort of mentality I want/need to avoid. I want to be aware of it and I think that's why I wrote it out. As far as her status she brings totally different things, at least it seems so, so she can never be...
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    Lack of jealousy due to attractiveness (I feel really awful admitting this)

    I'm not sure if this is even a problem, but I do feel a bit vain and guilty that I feel this way. I am in a triad (I guess?) with a couple for about 8 or 9 months now, my metamour is usually a very nice giving person, albeit really stunted maturity-wise. Anyway, there have been some recent...
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    Visitors feel free to send me a message, don't be shy ;)

    Visitors feel free to send me a message, don't be shy ;)
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    I Wish my hubby was more like new boyfriend

    I was going to 2nd the NRE thing, also, you might want to backoff on the sending pics if you're wanting something more. I'd kindly hint that he can see all he wants in person (set a date). Idk, that would be a turn-off for me, personally. Find out where new guy stands, and don't compare him to...
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    Their relationship is affecting me, but they're leaving me in the dark... help

    So much food for thought... I will respond appropriately tonight if I can. Short answer is I stated I wasn't okay with the arrangement and Igor does -not- want to lose me. Baby is hardly returning my messages, I offered to just have a nice relaxed chat about things, but I'm still waiting...
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    Their relationship is affecting me, but they're leaving me in the dark... help

    Yes! This is always what I'm thinking. I think it is reasonable as I tend to keep to myself when they are talking or whatever. I don't mind them having time together esp. if nothing is urgent, of the three of us I am the least (outwardly) needy. I always defer to her over myself every time if...
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    Their relationship is affecting me, but they're leaving me in the dark... help

    That thought had crossed my mind but, the reason I hesitate to make that assumption is that she appears to be attached to me and refers to me as her girlfriend, but more importantly, she is the only one of the three of us having outside sexual relationships (Igor and I do not deviate outside...
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    Their relationship is affecting me, but they're leaving me in the dark... help

    My thoughts too, I guess, but mostly with the girl. They'd be pretty devastated if I outed myself, especially because of this. I have a very strong bond w/ Igor, but neither of us can control what Baby does. Not completely. He is trying to make it work, I can tell, but there seems to be little I...
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    Their relationship is affecting me, but they're leaving me in the dark... help

    I am presently in a relationship with a couple and it's fairly complicated.* The thing that is the most troublesome about it right now, is that the issues they (Igor and Baby) are having in their relationship also effect my relationship and interactions with both of them. Yet, I have NO clue...
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    polyamory newbie

    I've had this happen to me so many times I have lost count, I don't think it's the same because in my case I am the female unicron (lol) that many couples are hunting. So, I would get involved, become attached, and then realize they wanted to move on or I was just another "notch in the belt" as...
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    Working triad?

    I have had a few successful V triads, but not any closed (triangle) ones. Then again, I haven't yet been in a situation where everyone was dating everyone, or wanted to. Is that your question? Are you looking for triangle success stories?
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    FMF v. MFM disparity?

    This seems to be what Igor wants, for now it is fine, but I don't know that I see it working in the long run.
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