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Bear and I are still married. Purchased a home. About to celebrate our 4th year anniversary. Still poly, still kinky, very happy.

Get out of that situation. That's no way to live. I know you love said person, but being their second and being treated like a dirty little secret that's hiding in plain sight is going to bring you pain and more of it. That stuff scars you. Trust me on this one. There is better out there and...

I too struggle with low sex drive and found that the BDSM drew it out. Thank you for the transparency in that last post. Great start. Looking forward to hearing more.

Bear and I are on year two of marriage. Goodness it's been a long time. I had to re read my last post to remind myself where I was. I now have 2 steady play partners in the BDSM world, a mistress, and I've become active sexually with a married couple whom I love dearly. Sunny is doing well...

I've been thinking a lot about my BDSM life. My poly life has essentially become dormant. It's not that I myself hadn't had opportunities to see other guys, it just hasn't been my focus. My focus lately has been my health and my job. Simply surviving. I've also focused a lot on getting my...

Make me wonder if he was greasing more than his 5th wheel out there. I find it truly bizarre that he would "allow" you to see Gary while trucking, but suddenly has a problem with it when he gets back. As a trucker myself, my gut reaction is he isn't getting anything on the side when he gets...

We have been married for nearly a year. I have met more of Bear's family. We get a long very well.. My son loves his stepbrother. They play together every week. I've lost 45lbs and Bear is earning his Master's degree. We've gotten our first piece of BDSM furniture for our dungeon. It's a...

Still here. Still standing. Bear's relationship with the other girl fell flat. Warden or his ex wife has disappeared. She took off and has never come back. The result is his son is now living with us. My stepson and I actually get along very well. We have learned about each other and we go...

Being "set on a triad" and looking for the "hot bi babe" is usually termed unicorn hunting. I am 29, current husband 46, so I can relate to age difference. Are you sure this isn't a pocket veto? Like intentionally making the search for a new partner impossible so it doesn't happen? I only ask...

I skimmed the last few replies, but, one question did jump out at me - why isn't the BF living with you like your life partner's other GF? Is that an option? 2 nights would be low for me too - But he needs to respect your boundaries.

Bear asked a girl out. I know this woman. Feeling conflicted. Extreme elation to just total numbness. I haven't been home for nearly a month now. I am literally across the country. Driving the big rig is amazing. I have seen the Appalachians, the Rocky mountains, and the Mojave Desert...

I litetally thought about you last night. I am glad you are back. Keep writing. Will message later when house stuff is done.

Got my departure date. It will most likely be this Monday. Moon came up and took me out on a wonderful date. He took me to an historic town and an historic restaurant and spoiled me rotten. I had a delicious meatloaf dinner, hot wings for appetizer, and a sweet french custard for desert. We...

People's pettiness never ceases to amaze me. Was her ego so fragile that she just HAD to be the one? Control issues anyone? Sorry to hear that. Awesome about your art!

Your kind words have really helped me the past few weeks. Thank you so much.

Oh isn't she a bowl of snickers ice cream? I love the glossy coat. <3

Awesome. Interested to see how it was received

Bear and I are talking a lot. Regularly. Last night we talked for over 2 hours. He saw Spiderman and a said a few other things. At the moment, I wish I could remember what they were. I'm having a hell of a time adjusting. Mainly, my sleep schedule. My body just doesn't want to switch over to...

There is great advice here already. I just wanted to wish you good luck! Post updates :)

Well said. Bear and I are trying to get ourselves in the position where we can afford a large place essentially on our own and be the landlords so if it does fizzle or something goes wrong, we won't be left in the cold. Not to mention it'd give more flexibility/renting options. Yes, we are...