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    Never been in the closet before, where's the door??

    How spectacularly judgemental of you. My previous posts were at the end of January in 2016. I developed preeclampsia and spent every other day in the hospital getting ultrasounds and steroid shots. Then I got HELLP syndrome and my preemie was delivered by emergency c-section on February 9th, two...
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    Never been in the closet before, where's the door??

    I've never been in any relationship that wasn't monogamous and heterosexual, so I keep stumbling whenever I try to bring up that I've started seeing "someone"-- that "someone" being a married couple. I'm generally a very open person, secrecy isn't my thing, but I'm also dreading the inevitable...
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    The Ram, the Lamb, and Me

    I've been on this forum before, but never made an introduction post! Everything is different now, anyway, so here's my story. My ex and I were always interested in being poly, though the whole process was a bit of a train wreck. We wanted a triad, but he wasn't honest with me or the people he...
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    There's a new man in my life, a new girl in his, and this isn't poly-- it just sucks.

    Our conversations usually end up with him explaining how he cannot possibly do anything for me because I haven't done enough for him. I say, I need your help researching baby crap and him saying that's a waste of time and that why don't I just play nine hours of video games with him? After all...
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    There's a new man in my life, a new girl in his, and this isn't poly-- it just sucks.

    Last night I slept on the couch, and when he asked me why, I said (in a very even tone, I swear), "I was hurt that you spent Friday night and most of Saturday with her, then when you got home you played online with her until five in the morning." His reply? "She went to bed at like 2, I was...
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    There's a new man in my life, a new girl in his, and this isn't poly-- it just sucks.

    My partner and I have been poly philosophically for years, but never actually sought other partners. When I got pregnant last year (I'm due in March), taking care of him seemed like a ton of work. I encouraged him to pester someone else for his needs. He ended up casually dating someone, and...
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    Dealing with partner's "honeymoon phase" with their new partners??

    My male partner and I have always been poly philosophically but never found a partner. Now I'm pregnant and would like him to branch out-- being a mother in a few months has me over the moon, and now more than ever, I feel kind of checked out of our relationship (sexually especially). My issue...
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