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  1. K

    Trying to understand

    My reason is that about 8 years ago I was diagnosed with stage 1(precancerous) cervical cells from HPV. If I hadn't gone through treatment (which thankfully did not include chemo since they were precancerous and caught really early thank to yearly exams) they would have become full blown cancer...
  2. K

    Trying to understand

    I am not willing to sleep with other people for him. I am not willing to betray my own feelings just to satisfy him or make his confusion okay. I am happy with myself and what I want. Gala girl that is pretty much where I am at right now. I am pushing him to go slow, not only for me but for...
  3. K

    Trying to understand

    He thought he wanted to swing because then I was doing it to and it would make it "okay" because then I was also involved in the action. The more he opens up and thinks about what he has been bottling up he wants another partner to connect with. He knew being swingers was out since I am not even...
  4. K

    Trying to understand

    Thank you for the resources. I will definitely have to read them. Yes I am making it a very big point to proceed with caution. He is aware that it may come to a point (when he either finds or looks for another partner) that I am not as open about it as I thought. I honestly can't say how I would...
  5. K

    Hey Y'all

    I am slowly learning that loyalty and faithfulness can be related more to sticking to boundaries and putting each other first above anything else. Part of loyalty to me is sex but it is also emotional. We are starting slow and just taking very tiny baby steps into this new adventure (for lack of...
  6. K

    Trying to understand

    hello, My husband and I have been married for almost 12 years, together almost 13. We have 3 kids, 2 of them together. We have been monogamous during this time. This past weekend he fully opened up to me about his feelings and identifying with polyamory. I am monogamous and only want or desire...
  7. K

    Hey Y'all

    The wife here. Not sure what all questions I have but trying my hardest to understand a lot things about polyamory, while keeping true to myself, my religion, and my family. My intentions on joining the forum is to learn and see it from someone else's eyes. I am very much so monogamous. My...
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