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The two main tips I have are it's better to over-communicate than under-communicate, and like all new things even if you know every single bit of theory there will always be trial and error. But that's okay because you're learning more about what works for all of you. I also struggle a lot with...

Hi. I'm a 25 year old enby and also in Scotland! I used to really struggle with getting confused by having strong romantic feelings for multiple people and I knew I had to choose one but it was never that simple. And then I discovered polyamory and it's made my life so much better to just love...

My girlfriend has a much lower libido than me. And at some point I did stop initiating. I'm still working on how to get back to doing so. It took me a while to grasp that it was just her and that it's not got anything to do with me, but eventually I got there. What helped was me paying more...

Hi Kevin, One of them is the same, one of them isn't. Unfortunately it turned out we were both unhappy with our relationship dynamic because we are at quite different ends of the mono-poly spectrum and meeting in the middle was never going to satisfy either of us. Thanks for the welcome and...

Hello and thank you

Hi. I was here briefly a long long time ago. And at some point I just stopped logging in - I can't even remember why: if it was anxiety or life just became a lot or my technology was throwing a hissy fit. I'm FuzzyHedgepig. I'm a relationship anarchist, by which I mean that since all humans are...

I can't help but wonder ... If this was 2 dads instead of 2 mums would they still think 'it's only fair that the child keep all their parents in their life' or woulf the excess father be considered irrelevant? But aside from that, this is awesome! I never actually thought of how polyamorous...

If you want to look at how much discrimination poly people face, it's a good idea to look more at someones background. My experiences will not be the same as a non-students, or a non-British person but neither of those were brought up.

My two partners have a lot in common and I think they'd really get on. But they live in different countries which obviously makes friendship a little harder. I'm working on having more conversations in our group chat, and finding things for the 3 of us to do together so they can at least get to...

Thanks for the link Kevin :) I've started reading and so far it's great to see that things have all worked out! I'm looking forward to reading all the rest

Good luck with your lady friend! I hope all of it goes well for you :)

Well ... There goes version 1 of this message, lost in an unexpected refresh. That's fine, draft 2 is always better. Hi Kevin - it's nice to meet you. Yep, a V configuration is exactly what we've got going on at the moment. Didn't I see somewhere that you're part of one too? Both me and my...

Hi, My name is Jamie. I'm a 20yo enby and I've been with my long distance boyfriend for almost 2 years now. We've been discussing polyamory for most of our relationship, always thinking the ideal would be a closed triad with a woman (who isn't scared of spiders - someone needs to not be!) After...