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I've had 90% openness and all others less than 50. So you could be right.

I hope so.

I still want to have children in the future - if I meet a woman (women?) who wants to get pregnant with me and give birth. If not - I can accept it. But I still keep hope.

Because I'm not sure sacrificing my life for the sake of our child would make us happy as a family.

It was 3.5 years ago when I came to Israel first time to obtain citizenship, and she moved to Canada. It was only a few days before she did her second test - and it appeared the first one was false. But that were incredibly tough days for me. I didn't want to move to Canada - but even more, I...

No need to feel bad. Yes, we needed to move to three different countries - but it was our voluntary decision. One of my gfs moved to apply for her scholarship at California Univ. Second moved to her parents and grandparents, with whom she separated at 14. And I decided to move to Israel because...

This song and video felt very nostalgic for me when I saw/heard them for the first time. I just moved to Israel from Lviv (the biggest city in western Ukraine), where I lived in an open triad with two bi girls. One of them moved to LA, CA, a bit earlier. And one - to Montreal, Quebec, the same...

Qyrymly is a native word for the Crimean-Tatarian (nation, culture, language) in their own language. Qyrymly is the only native nation of Crimea. They hope to return to their motherland when it's free from Russian occupants. They and we (ethnical Ukrainians) hope for Crimea to become a...

By the way, I recently posted a few links to modern Ukrainian music. One song is in Qyrymly's (Crimean-Tatar's) language, and the rest are in Ukrainian. https://www.facebook.com/t.tarnavsky/posts/pfbid02nXjLCB2DARiXLNjoreqhj2mLZzwfe7mrkHWxq3VnL8kjXqcHFFRVytHueRSto9pJl

"Rock" BTW, I totally disrespect Elvis as "king of rock'n'roll". He became one only for being white. And the real king of rock'n'roll was Chuck Berry!

I've been reading and writing here for months, but I never made an introductory post - so now I'll fix it. Age: 46 Gender: I was sure I was cisgender male for most of my life. But now I suppose to be genderfluid. Sexuality: I was sure I was heterosexual. But now I think I'm bisexual - I felt...

Yes. It was the moment when we invented "the last rule" or "the rule number infinity": "You can break any of the previous rules only if you do something instead to make your partners happy or at least ok with it.

Hi all! One of the most inspiring - and shocking - things in polyamory for me. When I watched my partners having sex with their other partners (both men and women) - surprisingly to me (the first time) - I felt HAPPY. After dozens more times, I've felt: I wasn't happy FOR them - I was happy...

No-no, they didn't ask me to choose. I've said, "IF they've asked me to choose - I couldn't." They instead proposed I become their common boyfriend - to be a threesome. It felt unusual and uncommon and a bit weird - but I liked it. So I agreed. And our 20 months of life together showed it was...

It felt like "she makes what better for herself - but she also takes care of me!" And it felt perfect. I felt I was cared (I spent the day with my two secondaries) - but my primary GF took what she wanted too.

Thank you! There is a popular joke: "It's Israel who tolerates LGBTQ+. But Tel Aviv tolerates hetero cis." I think, there're Ukrainians LGBTQ+ living in that apt. Thank you again! The worst is starting to be over. I've begun rehab. I hope it wouldn't take longer than a few days or a couple of...

I forgot to mention: our threesome sex was like a new universe compared to all my previous monogamous sex experiences.

When I've understood I'm poly, I've got it also, I'll never be in mono rels anymore. But my therapist reacted when I was describing processing to her: she said she proposed almost the same to her clients - mono-couples. Meaning processing is very helpful in mono rels as well.

The first time I heard about polyamory was from my two female friends who had just started being a couple then. They proposed I become their common boyfriend. It felt weird (unusual) - but pleasant at the same time. I had feelings for both. So if they proposed to me instead to choose one of them...

I thought I didn't feel jealousy at all for a long time. But after some poly experience, I'd formulated for myself what I call now "polyamorous jealousy". To explain it, I need to start with "polyamorous cheating". Poly cheating is breaking an agreement. In most poly rels, we have agreements...